--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Do not speak harshly to any one; those…" description: "\"Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.\" —..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/72c/gautama-buddha-163_angry_do-not-speak-harshly-to-any-one-those-wh_2120363.jpg" --- # Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to… ![“Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.” quote by Gautama Buddha](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/72c/gautama-buddha-163_angry_do-not-speak-harshly-to-any-one-those-wh_2120363.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/72c/gautama-buddha-163_angry_do-not-speak-harshly-to-any-one-those-wh_2120363.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/72c/gautama-buddha-163_angry_do-not-speak-harshly-to-any-one-those-wh_2120363.jpg) > “Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.” [Gautama Buddha](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gautama-buddha/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Treat others as you wish to be treated; harsh words return in kind, causing mutual pain. **In simple terms:** Speak kindly, avoid retaliation. Key Takeaway Choose compassion over anger. Themes compassion communication karma Mood reflective calm Type ethical philosophical When to use this quote - conflict resolution - parenting - customer service - team meetings Key Concepts Buddhist ethics reciprocity Questions to Reflect On - How can you respond calmly when provoked? - What impact does your tone have on relationships? 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