--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: ...It was then, for the first time, that…" description: "\"“...It was then, for the first time, that she understood above all her virtues what was in command was the vanity of a metaphysical woman.”\" — Gabriel ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f7f/gabriel-garc-a-m-rquez-116_first-time_it-was-then-for-the-first-time-that-she_33343.jpg" --- # ...It was then, for the first time, that she understood… ![“...It was then, for the first time, that she understood above all her virtues what was in command was the vanity of a metaphysical woman.” quote by Gabriel García Márquez](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f7f/gabriel-garc-a-m-rquez-116_first-time_it-was-then-for-the-first-time-that-she_33343.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f7f/gabriel-garc-a-m-rquez-116_first-time_it-was-then-for-the-first-time-that-she_33343.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f7f/gabriel-garc-a-m-rquez-116_first-time_it-was-then-for-the-first-time-that-she_33343.jpg) > ““...It was then, for the first time, that she understood above all her virtues what was in command was the vanity of a metaphysical woman.”” [Gabriel García Márquez](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gabriel-garc-a-m-rquez/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. She realizes that her greatest strength is the superficial, self‑absorbed nature of her philosophical pretensions. **In simple terms:** Self‑awareness of vanity Key Takeaway Pride masks true virtue Themes self‑knowledge vanity philosophical pretension identity gender Mood reflective melancholic introspective Type literary quote philosophical observation When to use this quote - personal introspection - literary analysis - psychological counseling - gender studies - philosophical debate Key Concepts metaphysics virtue self‑perception Practical Applications - critical essay - character study Questions to Reflect On - How does vanity shape one's self‑evaluation? - What distinguishes genuine virtue from self‑deception? ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Metaphysical](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/metaphysical/) [Time](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/time/) [Vanity](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/vanity/) ## Related quotes > [“St. Thomas Aquinas understood virtues to be habitual or abiding dispositions that help us to realize the good in our decisions and actions. 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