--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Jokes are powerful like that, they can be…" description: "\"“Jokes are powerful like that, they can be both inclusive and exclusive. Can create both an Us and a Them.”\" — Fredrik Backman" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b2a/fredrik-backman-857_comedy_jokes-are-powerful-like-that-they-can-be_626523.jpg" --- # Jokes are powerful like that, they can be both inclusive… ![“Jokes are powerful like that, they can be both inclusive and exclusive. Can create both an Us and a Them.” quote by Fredrik Backman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b2a/fredrik-backman-857_comedy_jokes-are-powerful-like-that-they-can-be_626523.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b2a/fredrik-backman-857_comedy_jokes-are-powerful-like-that-they-can-be_626523.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b2a/fredrik-backman-857_comedy_jokes-are-powerful-like-that-they-can-be_626523.jpg) > ““Jokes are powerful like that, they can be both inclusive and exclusive. Can create both an Us and a Them.”” [Fredrik Backman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/fredrik-backman/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Humor can unite groups while also drawing lines between them, wielding power to include or exclude. **In simple terms:** Jokes can bring people together or push them apart. Key Takeaway Use humor responsibly. Themes communication social dynamics inclusion Mood lighthearted thoughtful Type social psychological When to use this quote - team meetings - social media - public speaking Key Concepts social cohesion group identity psychology of humor Questions to Reflect On - When does a joke become harmful? - How can jokes foster genuine inclusion? 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