--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Relieved because what I dreaded most in…" description: "\"Relieved because what I dreaded most in the whole world was going to happen and I wouldn’t have to live with it anymore—the fear. There is the relief o..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/07f/francesca-lia-block-1363_away-from-you_relieved-because-what-i-dreaded-most-in_1018184.jpg" --- # Relieved because what I dreaded most in the whole world… ![“Relieved because what I dreaded most in the whole world was going to happen and I wouldn’t have to live with it anymore—the fear. There is the relief of finally not being alone and the relief of being alone when no one can take anything away from you. Here she was, my beautiful fear. Shiny as…” quote by Francesca Lia Block](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/07f/francesca-lia-block-1363_away-from-you_relieved-because-what-i-dreaded-most-in_1018184.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/07f/francesca-lia-block-1363_away-from-you_relieved-because-what-i-dreaded-most-in_1018184.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/07f/francesca-lia-block-1363_away-from-you_relieved-because-what-i-dreaded-most-in_1018184.jpg) > “Relieved because what I dreaded most in the whole world was going to happen and I wouldn’t have to live with it anymore—the fear. There is the relief of finally not being alone and the relief of being alone when no one can take anything away from you. Here she was, my beautiful fear. Shiny as crystal lace frost.” [Francesca Lia Block](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/francesca-lia-block/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The narrator finds relief in confronting fear and embracing solitude, seeing fear as beautiful. **In simple terms:** Fear becomes beautiful and freeing. Key Takeaway Embrace fear to discover inner strength. Themes fear solitude relief Mood reflective hopeful Type literary philosophical When to use this quote - therapy - creative writing - mindfulness - personal growth Key Concepts psychology literature Questions to Reflect On - What does your “beautiful fear” look like? - How can solitude be both comforting and isolating? 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