--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Amory had loved himself in Eleanor, so…" description: "\"“Amory had loved himself in Eleanor, so now what he hated was only a mirror. Their poses were strewn about the pale dawn like broken glass.”\" — F. Scot..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/571/f-scott-fitzgerald-72_broken-glass_amory-had-loved-himself-in-eleanor-so-no_222718.jpg" --- # Amory had loved himself in Eleanor, so now what he hated… ![“Amory had loved himself in Eleanor, so now what he hated was only a mirror. Their poses were strewn about the pale dawn like broken glass.” quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/571/f-scott-fitzgerald-72_broken-glass_amory-had-loved-himself-in-eleanor-so-no_222718.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/571/f-scott-fitzgerald-72_broken-glass_amory-had-loved-himself-in-eleanor-so-no_222718.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/571/f-scott-fitzgerald-72_broken-glass_amory-had-loved-himself-in-eleanor-so-no_222718.jpg) > ““Amory had loved himself in Eleanor, so now what he hated was only a mirror. Their poses were strewn about the pale dawn like broken glass.”” [F. Scott Fitzgerald](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/f-scott-fitzgerald/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Self‑love can become a distorted reflection, turning admiration into self‑hatred when projected onto others. **In simple terms:** Loving oneself through another can become self‑hate. Key Takeaway Seek authentic self‑acceptance. Themes self‑image projection identity Mood melancholic poetic introspective Type literary psychological When to use this quote - relationships - self‑esteem work - identity - artistic expression Key Concepts Psychoanalysis literary symbolism Questions to Reflect On - What aspects of yourself do you see in others? - How can you love yourself without projection? A Different Perspective Mirroring others may obscure true self. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Mirror](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mirror/) ## Related quotes > [“All the way back she talked haltingly about herself, and Amory's love waned slowly with the moon. At her door they started from habit…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/f-scott-fitzgerald/all-the-way-back-she-talked-haltingly-about-herself-and-amory-s-love/) [F. Scott Fitzgerald](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/f-scott-fitzgerald/) > [I hated the mirror and avoided it as much as I could. 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