--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Pleasure is our first and kindred good…" description: "\"Pleasure is our first and kindred good. It is the starting point of every choice and of every aversion, and to it we always come back, inasmuch as we m..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ee/epicurus-1642_aversion_pleasure-is-our-first-and-kindred-good-i_2813086.jpg" --- # Pleasure is our first and kindred good. It is the starting… ![“Pleasure is our first and kindred good. It is the starting point of every choice and of every aversion, and to it we always come back, inasmuch as we make feeling the rule by which to judge of every good thing.” quote by Epicurus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ee/epicurus-1642_aversion_pleasure-is-our-first-and-kindred-good-i_2813086.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ee/epicurus-1642_aversion_pleasure-is-our-first-and-kindred-good-i_2813086.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ee/epicurus-1642_aversion_pleasure-is-our-first-and-kindred-good-i_2813086.jpg) > “Pleasure is our first and kindred good. It is the starting point of every choice and of every aversion, and to it we always come back, inasmuch as we make feeling the rule by which to judge of every good thing.” [Epicurus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/epicurus/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Pleasure is the fundamental basis for all decisions and judgments of good. **In simple terms:** Pleasure guides choices and judgments. Key Takeaway Recognize pleasure as a primary motivator. Themes ethics hedonism human nature Mood reflective analytical Type philosophical ethical When to use this quote - personal decision making - consumer behavior - relationship choices - moral dilemmas Key Concepts psychology value theory Questions to Reflect On - How does pleasure influence your daily choices? - Can pleasure be balanced with responsibility? 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