--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: For that's what sex is about ultimately…" description: "\"“For that's what sex is about ultimately - communion, ultimate communion, the fusing of two beings into one, their feelings, emotions, hearts, minds an..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a0/elliot-mabeuse-27023_communion_for-that-s-what-sex-is-about-ultimately_2688006.jpg" --- # For that's what sex is about ultimately - communion… ![“For that's what sex is about ultimately - communion, ultimate communion, the fusing of two beings into one, their feelings, emotions, hearts, minds and souls, and whether it's done with kisses and caresses or whips and chains, it doesn't matter in the end.” quote by Elliot Mabeuse](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a0/elliot-mabeuse-27023_communion_for-that-s-what-sex-is-about-ultimately_2688006.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a0/elliot-mabeuse-27023_communion_for-that-s-what-sex-is-about-ultimately_2688006.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a0/elliot-mabeuse-27023_communion_for-that-s-what-sex-is-about-ultimately_2688006.jpg) > ““For that's what sex is about ultimately - communion, ultimate communion, the fusing of two beings into one, their feelings, emotions, hearts, minds and souls, and whether it's done with kisses and caresses or whips and chains, it doesn't matter in the end.”” [Elliot Mabeuse](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elliot-mabeuse/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Sex is ultimately about deep connection, merging bodies and souls beyond physical acts. **In simple terms:** Sex is about deep communion. Key Takeaway Seek genuine intimacy. Themes connection intimacy union Mood reflective intimate Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - romantic relationships - sexual exploration - emotional bonding Key Concepts psychology human relationships Questions to Reflect On - How do you nurture emotional intimacy? - Can physical acts replace deep connection? 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