--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If you clear out all that space in your…" description: "\"“If you clear out all that space in your mind that you’re using right now to obsess about this guy, you’ll have a vacuum there, an open spot—a doorway...." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/elizabeth-gilbert-131_psychology_if-you-clear-out-all-that-space-in-your_367402.jpg" --- # If you clear out all that space in your mind that you’re… ![“If you clear out all that space in your mind that you’re using right now to obsess about this guy, you’ll have a vacuum there, an open spot—a doorway. And guess what the universe will do with that doorway? It will rush in—God will rush in—and fill you with more love than you ever dreamed.” quote by Elizabeth Gilbert](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/elizabeth-gilbert-131_psychology_if-you-clear-out-all-that-space-in-your_367402.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/elizabeth-gilbert-131_psychology_if-you-clear-out-all-that-space-in-your_367402.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/elizabeth-gilbert-131_psychology_if-you-clear-out-all-that-space-in-your_367402.jpg) > ““If you clear out all that space in your mind that you’re using right now to obsess about this guy, you’ll have a vacuum there, an open spot—a doorway. And guess what the universe will do with that doorway? It will rush in—God will rush in—and fill you with more love than you ever dreamed.”” [Elizabeth Gilbert](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elizabeth-gilbert/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Releasing obsessive thoughts creates mental space that invites new, abundant love and divine presence. **In simple terms:** Let go of obsession to make room for love. Key Takeaway Clear your mind to attract love. Themes mindfulness spirituality love letting go Mood hopeful inspired peaceful Type advice spiritual motivational When to use this quote - relationship healing - personal growth - meditation - daily affirmations Key Concepts attachment abundance divine flow Questions to Reflect On - What mental space can you create today? - How does letting go change your experience of love? 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