--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I think I’ve always believed that there…" description: "\"I think I’ve always believed that there is one person in the universe who you’re truly meant for–for whom you are truly meant–and the fact that sometim..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/229/daniel-handler-1043_bother_i-think-i-ve-always-believed-that-there_2480458.jpg" --- # I think I’ve always believed that there is one person in… ![“I think I’ve always believed that there is one person in the universe who you’re truly meant for–for whom you are truly meant–and the fact that sometimes there are two or even more people on the earth you can fall in love with really bothers me. It suggests that if you work hard you can be meant…” quote by Daniel Handler](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/229/daniel-handler-1043_bother_i-think-i-ve-always-believed-that-there_2480458.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/229/daniel-handler-1043_bother_i-think-i-ve-always-believed-that-there_2480458.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/229/daniel-handler-1043_bother_i-think-i-ve-always-believed-that-there_2480458.jpg) > “I think I’ve always believed that there is one person in the universe who you’re truly meant for–for whom you are truly meant–and the fact that sometimes there are two or even more people on the earth you can fall in love with really bothers me. It suggests that if you work hard you can be meant for anyone.” [Daniel Handler](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/daniel-handler/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The quote reflects on the paradox of believing in a single soulmate while recognizing the possibility of loving multiple people, suggesting love may be a choice rather than destiny. **In simple terms:** Believing in one soulmate conflicts with loving many. Key Takeaway Accept love’s complexity and avoid rigid expectations. Themes love destiny choice Mood conflicted thoughtful Type philosophical reflective When to use this quote - dating - marriage - self‑reflection - relationship counseling Key Concepts soulmate theory relationship dynamics Questions to Reflect On - Do you think love is predetermined or chosen? - How does believing in one soulmate affect relationships? 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