--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: When you get irritated with children…" description: "\"“When you get irritated with children; that is considered as taking a new ‘loan’ (new karma is charged). You have not yet paid off the old one! To beco..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f93/dada-bhagwan-31_cause-and-effect_when-you-get-irritated-with-children-tha_2679446.jpg" --- # When you get irritated with children; that is considered… ![“When you get irritated with children; that is considered as taking a new ‘loan’ (new karma is charged). You have not yet paid off the old one! To become irritated is an “extra item” outside of the “contract” (the past lives deeds between 2 people). This is how one continues to create new debts…” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f93/dada-bhagwan-31_cause-and-effect_when-you-get-irritated-with-children-tha_2679446.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f93/dada-bhagwan-31_cause-and-effect_when-you-get-irritated-with-children-tha_2679446.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f93/dada-bhagwan-31_cause-and-effect_when-you-get-irritated-with-children-tha_2679446.jpg) > ““When you get irritated with children; that is considered as taking a new ‘loan’ (new karma is charged). You have not yet paid off the old one! To become irritated is an “extra item” outside of the “contract” (the past lives deeds between 2 people). This is how one continues to create new debts (new karma is charged).”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Irritation toward children creates new karmic debt, adding to unresolved past actions. **In simple terms:** Getting angry adds new karma on top of old unpaid karma. Key Takeaway Avoid irritation to prevent accumulating karmic debt. Themes karmaarma patience relationships Mood reflective calm Type spiritual ethical When to use this quote - Parenting - conflict resolution - self‑reflection Key Concepts Karmic cycle personal responsibility Questions to Reflect On - What unresolved feelings surface when you get irritated? - How can you transform irritation into compassion? 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