--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: When the mind is not spoilt, the speech…" description: "\"“When the mind is not spoilt, the speech is not spoilt, the conduct is not spoilt, that is absolute humility [param vinaya].”\" — Dada Bhagwan" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f3f/dada-bhagwan-31_behavior_when-the-mind-is-not-spoilt-the-speech-i_3036944.jpg" --- # When the mind is not spoilt, the speech is not spoilt, the… ![“When the mind is not spoilt, the speech is not spoilt, the conduct is not spoilt, that is absolute humility [param vinaya].” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f3f/dada-bhagwan-31_behavior_when-the-mind-is-not-spoilt-the-speech-i_3036944.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f3f/dada-bhagwan-31_behavior_when-the-mind-is-not-spoilt-the-speech-i_3036944.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f3f/dada-bhagwan-31_behavior_when-the-mind-is-not-spoilt-the-speech-i_3036944.jpg) > ““When the mind is not spoilt, the speech is not spoilt, the conduct is not spoilt, that is absolute humility \[param vinaya\].”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Humility arises when thoughts, words, and actions remain pure and uncorrupted, reflecting inner cleanliness. **In simple terms:** Pure mind leads to humble behavior. Key Takeaway Cultivate inner purity. Themes humility integrity self‑control Mood calm reflective Type ethical spiritual When to use this quote - personal meditation - conflict resolution - leadership - parenting Key Concepts spirituality ethical conduct Questions to Reflect On - How can you keep thoughts clean under stress? - What habits protect your conduct? 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