--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There is only one way to be happy in this…" description: "\"“There is only one way to be happy in this worldly life. Relinquish ‘my’ and go after [help to] people.”\" — Dada Bhagwan" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/592/dada-bhagwan-31_happiness_there-is-only-one-way-to-be-happy-in-thi_2610475.jpg" --- # There is only one way to be happy in this worldly life… ![“There is only one way to be happy in this worldly life. Relinquish ‘my’ and go after [help to] people.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/592/dada-bhagwan-31_happiness_there-is-only-one-way-to-be-happy-in-thi_2610475.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/592/dada-bhagwan-31_happiness_there-is-only-one-way-to-be-happy-in-thi_2610475.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/592/dada-bhagwan-31_happiness_there-is-only-one-way-to-be-happy-in-thi_2610475.jpg) > ““There is only one way to be happy in this worldly life. Relinquish ‘my’ and go after \[help to\] people.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Happiness is achieved by relinquishing selfishness and serving others. **In simple terms:** Selflessness leads to happiness. Key Takeaway Help others to find joy. Themes selflessness happiness spirituality Mood inspirational thoughtful Type spiritual philosophical When to use this quote - volunteering - mindfulness practice - spiritual teachings Key Concepts service ego fulfillment Questions to Reflect On - How can one balance self-care with service? - What are practical ways to let go of ego? 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