--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There is a very big 'college' about how a…" description: "\"“There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman should interact with each other after marriage. However, people get married without 'studyin..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b8/dada-bhagwan-31_ignorance_there-is-a-very-big-college-about-how-a_1681313.jpg" --- # There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman… ![“There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman should interact with each other after marriage. However, people get married without 'studying'.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b8/dada-bhagwan-31_ignorance_there-is-a-very-big-college-about-how-a_1681313.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b8/dada-bhagwan-31_ignorance_there-is-a-very-big-college-about-how-a_1681313.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b8/dada-bhagwan-31_ignorance_there-is-a-very-big-college-about-how-a_1681313.jpg) > ““There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman should interact with each other after marriage. However, people get married without 'studying'.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The quote points out that many couples lack formal guidance on marital interaction, yet they still marry without such preparation. **In simple terms:** Married couples often lack taught advice on how to relate after wedding. Key Takeaway Seek learning and communication in marriage. Themes marriage communication education Mood reflective thoughtful Type advice philosophical When to use this quote - pre‑marriage counseling - couples therapy - self‑help books - family discussions Key Concepts relationship dynamics social expectations Questions to Reflect On - How can couples proactively learn about each other? - What role does cultural tradition play in marital education? 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