--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Our talk must ‘adjust’ to others. If our…" description: "\"“Our talk must ‘adjust’ to others. If our talk does not adjust to others, then it is our mistake only. It is not mistake in entirely, but there is some..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/442/dada-bhagwan-31_adjustment_our-talk-must-adjust-to-others-if-our-ta_1190771.jpg" --- # Our talk must ‘adjust’ to others. If our talk does not… ![“Our talk must ‘adjust’ to others. If our talk does not adjust to others, then it is our mistake only. It is not mistake in entirely, but there is some mistake of ours. If the mistake is destroyed, one will adjust. Vitrags (The Enlightened Ones) talk is of ‘Everywhere Adjustment’.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/442/dada-bhagwan-31_adjustment_our-talk-must-adjust-to-others-if-our-ta_1190771.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/442/dada-bhagwan-31_adjustment_our-talk-must-adjust-to-others-if-our-ta_1190771.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/442/dada-bhagwan-31_adjustment_our-talk-must-adjust-to-others-if-our-ta_1190771.jpg) > ““Our talk must ‘adjust’ to others. If our talk does not adjust to others, then it is our mistake only. It is not mistake in entirely, but there is some mistake of ours. If the mistake is destroyed, one will adjust. Vitrags (The Enlightened Ones) talk is of ‘Everywhere Adjustment’.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Effective communication requires adapting your speech to your audience; failure to do so reflects personal shortcomings that can be corrected through self‑adjustment. **In simple terms:** Speak to fit your listener; adjust to connect. Key Takeaway Adapt your language to each listener. Themes communication humility self‑awareness Mood empathetic thoughtful Type advice philosophical When to use this quote - teaching - leadership - conflict resolution - customer service - public speaking Key Concepts adjustment mindfulness personal growth Questions to Reflect On - How can you balance authenticity with adaptation? - When is it okay to not adjust? 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