--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Know the other person’s viewpoint first…" description: "\"“Know the other person’s viewpoint first and then talk. To Talk after comparing it or mixing it with our viewpoint is an offence.”\" — Dada Bhagwan" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97d/dada-bhagwan-31_offence_know-the-other-person-s-viewpoint-first_1576499.jpg" --- # Know the other person’s viewpoint first and then talk. To… ![“Know the other person’s viewpoint first and then talk. To Talk after comparing it or mixing it with our viewpoint is an offence.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97d/dada-bhagwan-31_offence_know-the-other-person-s-viewpoint-first_1576499.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97d/dada-bhagwan-31_offence_know-the-other-person-s-viewpoint-first_1576499.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97d/dada-bhagwan-31_offence_know-the-other-person-s-viewpoint-first_1576499.jpg) > ““Know the other person’s viewpoint first and then talk. To Talk after comparing it or mixing it with our viewpoint is an offence.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Advocates listening to others’ perspectives before speaking, warning that ignoring them is disrespectful. **In simple terms:** Listen first, then speak. Key Takeaway Practice empathetic dialogue. Themes communication empathy respect Mood reflective empathetic Type inspirational practical When to use this quote - team meetings - counseling sessions - family discussions - negotiation - teaching Key Concepts active listening conflict resolution Questions to Reflect On - How can you ensure you truly understand before responding? - What habits help you stay open to differing views? 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