--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It is artadhyan (mournful contemplation…" description: "\"“It is artadhyan (mournful contemplation that hurts the self) to complain and cry about one’s own misery and it is raudradhyan (wrathful contemplation ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/8fd/dada-bhagwan-31_hurt_it-is-artadhyan-mournful-contemplation-t_3145293.jpg" --- # It is artadhyan (mournful contemplation that hurts the… ![“It is artadhyan (mournful contemplation that hurts the self) to complain and cry about one’s own misery and it is raudradhyan (wrathful contemplation hurting the self and others) to give misery to others. It is dharmadhyan (auspicious contemplation, giving happiness to others) to stop both of…” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/8fd/dada-bhagwan-31_hurt_it-is-artadhyan-mournful-contemplation-t_3145293.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/8fd/dada-bhagwan-31_hurt_it-is-artadhyan-mournful-contemplation-t_3145293.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/8fd/dada-bhagwan-31_hurt_it-is-artadhyan-mournful-contemplation-t_3145293.jpg) > ““It is artadhyan (mournful contemplation that hurts the self) to complain and cry about one’s own misery and it is raudradhyan (wrathful contemplation hurting the self and others) to give misery to others. It is dharmadhyan (auspicious contemplation, giving happiness to others) to stop both of these. The tool that helps stop both of these is dharmadhyan.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Self‑inflicted suffering through lament or anger harms both self and others; compassionate contemplation ends this cycle. **In simple terms:** Compassion ends self‑harm. Key Takeaway Practice compassionate reflection. Themes spirituality compassion self‑awareness philosophy Mood reflective inspirational Type philosophical spiritual When to use this quote - personal crises - conflict resolution - mental health counseling Key Concepts mindfulness ethical conduct inner peace Questions to Reflect On - Can you observe suffering without judgment? - How does compassion change outcomes? 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