--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: In marriage, at home and everywhere else…" description: "\"“In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain superfluous. That is where people go in deep into; that is called the worldly life (sansaar..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e44/dada-bhagwan-31_life_in-marriage-at-home-and-everywhere-else_1852577.jpg" --- # In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain… ![“In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain superfluous. That is where people go in deep into; that is called the worldly life (sansaar).” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e44/dada-bhagwan-31_life_in-marriage-at-home-and-everywhere-else_1852577.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e44/dada-bhagwan-31_life_in-marriage-at-home-and-everywhere-else_1852577.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e44/dada-bhagwan-31_life_in-marriage-at-home-and-everywhere-else_1852577.jpg) > ““In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain superfluous. That is where people go in deep into; that is called the worldly life (sansaar).”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. In marriage and life, one should stay detached, recognizing worldly life as an illusion to be transcended. **In simple terms:** Stay detached from worldly life, even in marriage. Key Takeaway Practice detachment to see beyond material illusion. Themes spirituality marriage detachment Mood contemplative calm Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - daily relationships - family decisions - personal growth - meditative practice Key Concepts non‑attachment philosophy of self Questions to Reflect On - How can one balance love and detachment? - What practices help maintain inner peace? 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