--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Gross circumstances, subtle…" description: "\"“Gross circumstances, subtle circumstances, and circumstances of the speech are of the non-Self (not mine); and dependent on an external power. Externa..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/dada-bhagwan-31_communication_gross-circumstances-subtle-circumstances_1150745.jpg" --- # Gross circumstances, subtle circumstances, and… ![“Gross circumstances, subtle circumstances, and circumstances of the speech are of the non-Self (not mine); and dependent on an external power. External circumstances are gross (tangible; sthool). The thoughts of the mind are subtle (shookshma) circumstances, and the circumstances of speech are of…” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/dada-bhagwan-31_communication_gross-circumstances-subtle-circumstances_1150745.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/dada-bhagwan-31_communication_gross-circumstances-subtle-circumstances_1150745.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/dada-bhagwan-31_communication_gross-circumstances-subtle-circumstances_1150745.jpg) > ““Gross circumstances, subtle circumstances, and circumstances of the speech are of the non-Self (not mine); and dependent on an external power. External circumstances are gross (tangible; sthool). The thoughts of the mind are subtle (shookshma) circumstances, and the circumstances of speech are of the non-Self, and dependent upon external power. They are not in our control.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. External events, thoughts, and speech are not self‑controlled; they arise from outside forces, emphasizing the limits of personal control. **In simple terms:** We cannot control external events, thoughts, or speech. Key Takeaway Focus on inner response, not external control. Themes control externality spirituality Mood calm detached Type spiritual philosophical When to use this quote - stress management - meditation - decision making - public speaking Key Concepts non‑self dependence mind‑body dualism Questions to Reflect On - How can you respond wisely to uncontrollable events? - What practices help you stay centered? 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