--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: By scolding, one will not tell you the…" description: "\"“By scolding, one will not tell you the truth and use deceit. All this deceptions in the world are created due to scolding.”\" — Dada Bhagwan" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/dada-bhagwan-31_balance-in-life_by-scolding-one-will-not-tell-you-the-tr_500091.jpg" --- # By scolding, one will not tell you the truth and use… ![“By scolding, one will not tell you the truth and use deceit. All this deceptions in the world are created due to scolding.” quote by Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/dada-bhagwan-31_balance-in-life_by-scolding-one-will-not-tell-you-the-tr_500091.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/dada-bhagwan-31_balance-in-life_by-scolding-one-will-not-tell-you-the-tr_500091.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/dada-bhagwan-31_balance-in-life_by-scolding-one-will-not-tell-you-the-tr_500091.jpg) > ““By scolding, one will not tell you the truth and use deceit. All this deceptions in the world are created due to scolding.”” [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Warns that scolding breeds deception and falsehood, undermining truth. **In simple terms:** Scolding leads to deceit and falsehood. Key Takeaway Communicate with kindness to foster truth. Themes communication truth deception Mood empathetic serious Type spiritual philosophical When to use this quote - parenting - leadership - education - conflict resolution Key Concepts psychology ethics Questions to Reflect On - How can we correct behavior without scolding? - What are alternatives to harsh criticism? 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