--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It was as if thousands and thousands of…" description: "\"It was as if thousands and thousands of little roots and threads of consciousness in him and her had grown together into a tangled mass, till they coul..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/949/d-h-lawrence-426_clear_it-was-as-if-thousands-and-thousands-of_230309.jpg" --- # It was as if thousands and thousands of little roots and… ![“It was as if thousands and thousands of little roots and threads of consciousness in him and her had grown together into a tangled mass, till they could crowd no more, and the plant was dying. Now quietly, subtly, she was unravelling the tangle of his consciousness and hers, breaking the threads…” quote by D. H. Lawrence](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/949/d-h-lawrence-426_clear_it-was-as-if-thousands-and-thousands-of_230309.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/949/d-h-lawrence-426_clear_it-was-as-if-thousands-and-thousands-of_230309.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/949/d-h-lawrence-426_clear_it-was-as-if-thousands-and-thousands-of_230309.jpg) > “It was as if thousands and thousands of little roots and threads of consciousness in him and her had grown together into a tangled mass, till they could crowd no more, and the plant was dying. Now quietly, subtly, she was unravelling the tangle of his consciousness and hers, breaking the threads gently, one by one, with patience and impatience to get clear.” [D. H. Lawrence](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/d-h-lawrence/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A couple’s intertwined thoughts become so tangled they suffocate, and she gently untangles them with patient, impatient care. **In simple terms:** Their minds are tangled; she untangles them slowly. Key Takeaway Untangle mental knots with patience. Themes relationships psychology communication Mood reflective empathetic Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - marriage counseling - personal growth - conflict resolution Key Concepts interdependence emotional labor Questions to Reflect On - How can patience coexist with impatience? - What does “unraveling” mean for personal boundaries? 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