--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: No, but he’s on his way to it,’ she…" description: "\"“No, but he’s on his way to it,’ she replies. ‘You don’t think I’m wrong to try to influence Guthrie’s life, do you, Hester?’ ‘She’s not the right pers..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cc0/d-e-stevenson-9903_good-wife_no-but-he-s-on-his-way-to-it-she-replies_825951.png" --- # No, but he’s on his way to it,’ she replies. ‘You don’t… ![“No, but he’s on his way to it,’ she replies. ‘You don’t think I’m wrong to try to influence Guthrie’s life, do you, Hester?’ ‘She’s not the right person for him.’ ‘She’s all wrong in every way. I’m not that despicable creature, a jealous mother. I’d welcome any girl I thought would make the man a…” quote by D.E. Stevenson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cc0/d-e-stevenson-9903_good-wife_no-but-he-s-on-his-way-to-it-she-replies_825951.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cc0/d-e-stevenson-9903_good-wife_no-but-he-s-on-his-way-to-it-she-replies_825951.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cc0/d-e-stevenson-9903_good-wife_no-but-he-s-on-his-way-to-it-she-replies_825951.png) > ““No, but he’s on his way to it,’ she replies. ‘You don’t think I’m wrong to try to influence Guthrie’s life, do you, Hester?’ ‘She’s not the right person for him.’ ‘She’s all wrong in every way. I’m not that despicable creature, a jealous mother. I’d welcome any girl I thought would make the man a good wife. Someone like you,’ she continues, looking at me, almost with surprise. ‘Yes, somebody exactly like you. And I’d steal you from that Tim of yours if I could, but I know there’s little hope of that – that’s the sort of woman I am. People must marry, and have children – and yet I don’t know why I should think so, for there’s a deal of sorrow comes to most married folks that single ones escape.”” [D.E. Stevenson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/d-e-stevenson/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A woman reflects on her role as a mother, jealousy, and the societal pressure to marry, questioning whether marriage truly brings happiness. **In simple terms:** She doubts marriage’s value and feels conflicted about influencing a man’s life. Key Takeaway Question societal expectations and seek authentic relationships. Themes family jealousy marriage identity societal pressure Mood conflicted thoughtful introspective Type literary dialogue character study When to use this quote - parenting decisions - relationship counseling - career choices - personal growth Key Concepts maternal instinct self‑reflection gender roles Questions to Reflect On - Do you feel pressured to follow traditional paths? - How can you honor your own values? 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