--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: And to think, she'd once had the hots for…" description: "\"“And to think, she'd once had the hots for him, back in the old days (six months ago) when razor-thin men with noses like Durante and an encyclopaedic ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6ed/clive-barker-773_de-niro_and-to-think-she-d-once-had-the-hots-for_1977675.jpg" --- # And to think, she'd once had the hots for him, back in the… ![“And to think, she'd once had the hots for him, back in the old days (six months ago) when razor-thin men with noses like Durante and an encyclopaedic knowledge of de Niro movies had really been her style. Now she saw him for what he was, flotsam from a lost ship of hope. Still a pill-freak, still…” quote by Clive Barker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6ed/clive-barker-773_de-niro_and-to-think-she-d-once-had-the-hots-for_1977675.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6ed/clive-barker-773_de-niro_and-to-think-she-d-once-had-the-hots-for_1977675.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6ed/clive-barker-773_de-niro_and-to-think-she-d-once-had-the-hots-for_1977675.jpg) > ““And to think, she'd once had the hots for him, back in the old days (six months ago) when razor-thin men with noses like Durante and an encyclopaedic knowledge of de Niro movies had really been her style. Now she saw him for what he was, flotsam from a lost ship of hope. Still a pill-freak, still a theoretical bisexual, still devoted to early Polanski movies and symbolic pacifism.”” [Clive Barker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/clive-barker/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. She re-evaluates a past attraction, seeing him now as a broken, hopeful figure, reflecting on changing perceptions and disillusionment **In simple terms:** She sees him as a lost, hopeful figure, not the ideal she once liked Key Takeaway Acknowledge how perceptions evolve over time Themes love illusion identity disillusionment sexuality culture Mood reflective critical Type literary psychological When to use this quote - relationships - self-reflection - media analysis - personal growth - cultural critique Key Concepts psychology social dynamics identity formation Questions to Reflect On - What changed in her view? - How do we reconcile past fantasies with present reality? 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