--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I was only going to say,\" said Scrooge's…" description: "\"“I was only going to say,\" said Scrooge's nephew, \"that the consequence of his taking a dislike to us, and not making merry with us, is, as I think, th..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2df/charles-dickens-34_family-ties_i-was-only-going-to-say-said-scrooge-s-n_2987096.jpg" --- # I was only going to say," said Scrooge's nephew, "that the… ![“I was only going to say," said Scrooge's nephew, "that the consequence of his taking a dislike to us, and not making merry with us, is, as I think, that he loses some pleasant moments, which could do him no harm. I am sure he loses pleasanter companions than he can find in his own thoughts, either…” quote by Charles Dickens](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2df/charles-dickens-34_family-ties_i-was-only-going-to-say-said-scrooge-s-n_2987096.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2df/charles-dickens-34_family-ties_i-was-only-going-to-say-said-scrooge-s-n_2987096.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2df/charles-dickens-34_family-ties_i-was-only-going-to-say-said-scrooge-s-n_2987096.jpg) > ““I was only going to say," said Scrooge's nephew, "that the consequence of his taking a dislike to us, and not making merry with us, is, as I think, that he loses some pleasant moments, which could do him no harm. I am sure he loses pleasanter companions than he can find in his own thoughts, either in his mouldy old office or his dusty chambers. I mean to give him the same chance every year, whether he likes it or not, for I pity him. He may rail at Christmas till he dies, but he can't help thinking better of it—I defy him—if he finds me going there in good temper, year after year, and saying, 'Uncle Scrooge, how are you?' If it only puts him in the vein to leave his poor clerk fifty pounds, that's something.”” [Charles Dickens](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/charles-dickens/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Scrooge is urged to engage socially, as isolation deprives him of joy and companionship. **In simple terms:** Social interaction brings joy and purpose. Key Takeaway Reach out to others during holidays. 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