--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Odi et amo; quare fortasse requiris…" description: "\"“Odi et amo; quare fortasse requiris, nescio, sed fieri sentio et excrucior. (my translation: I hate and I love, you ask why I do this, I do not know, ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/186/catullus-11720_quote_odi-et-amo-quare-fortasse-requiris-nesci_1484360.jpg" --- # Odi et amo; quare fortasse requiris, nescio, sed fieri… ![“Odi et amo; quare fortasse requiris, nescio, sed fieri sentio et excrucior. (my translation: I hate and I love, you ask why I do this, I do not know, but I feel and I am tormented)” quote by Catullus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/186/catullus-11720_quote_odi-et-amo-quare-fortasse-requiris-nesci_1484360.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/186/catullus-11720_quote_odi-et-amo-quare-fortasse-requiris-nesci_1484360.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/186/catullus-11720_quote_odi-et-amo-quare-fortasse-requiris-nesci_1484360.jpg) > ““Odi et amo; quare fortasse requiris, nescio, sed fieri sentio et excrucior. (my translation: I hate and I love, you ask why I do this, I do not know, but I feel and I am tormented)”” [Catullus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/catullus/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Expresses contradictory feelings of love and hate, acknowledging the mystery and torment of such emotions. **In simple terms:** Love and hate coexist, creating inner conflict. Key Takeaway Accept emotional complexity. Themes love hate conflict emotion Mood melancholic passionate Type poetic reflective When to use this quote - relationship counseling - self‑reflection - artistic inspiration Key Concepts classical poetry psychology human experience Questions to Reflect On - Why do you feel both love and hate? - How can you navigate such inner turmoil? A Different Perspective The paradox may hinder clear decision‑making. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Hate](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/hate/) ## Related quotes > [I hate and love. And why, perhaps you’ll ask. 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