--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: They belonged to each other totally, and…" description: "\"They belonged to each other totally, and always would, and that was that. But maybe everyone felt that way? Until the moment they realized they were ju..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b6e/cassandra-clare-9_apart_they-belonged-to-each-other-totally-and_2588630.jpg" --- # They belonged to each other totally, and always would, and… ![“They belonged to each other totally, and always would, and that was that. But maybe everyone felt that way? Until the moment they realized they were just like everyone else, and everything they'd thought was real shattered apart.” quote by Cassandra Clare](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b6e/cassandra-clare-9_apart_they-belonged-to-each-other-totally-and_2588630.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b6e/cassandra-clare-9_apart_they-belonged-to-each-other-totally-and_2588630.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b6e/cassandra-clare-9_apart_they-belonged-to-each-other-totally-and_2588630.jpg) > “They belonged to each other totally, and always would, and that was that. But maybe everyone felt that way? Until the moment they realized they were just like everyone else, and everything they'd thought was real shattered apart.” [Cassandra Clare](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/cassandra-clare/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Two people feel wholly connected, but realization of commonality shatters their perceived uniqueness. **In simple terms:** Believing we are unique can be shattered by shared experience. Key Takeaway Accept common humanity. Themes identity connection disillusionment Mood reflective somber Type narrative emotional When to use this quote - relationships - self‑discovery - group dynamics Key Concepts psychology social comparison Questions to Reflect On - When did you feel uniquely connected? - How did reality change that feeling? A Different Perspective May ignore individual differences. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Moments](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/moments/) [Time](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/time/) ## Related quotes > [“What they had wasn't ordinary, or subject to the ordinary rules of relationships and breakups. 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