--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It's the arrangement of events which…" description: "\"It's the arrangement of events which makes the stories. It's throwing away, compressing, underlining. Hindsight can give structure to anything, but you..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/83e/carol-shields-9916_able_it-s-the-arrangement-of-events-which-mak_2981484.jpg" --- # It's the arrangement of events which makes the stories… ![“It's the arrangement of events which makes the stories. It's throwing away, compressing, underlining. Hindsight can give structure to anything, but you have to be able to see it. Breathing, waking and sleeping: our lives are steamed and shaped into stories. Knowing that is what keeps me from going…” quote by Carol Shields](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/83e/carol-shields-9916_able_it-s-the-arrangement-of-events-which-mak_2981484.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/83e/carol-shields-9916_able_it-s-the-arrangement-of-events-which-mak_2981484.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/83e/carol-shields-9916_able_it-s-the-arrangement-of-events-which-mak_2981484.jpg) > “It's the arrangement of events which makes the stories. It's throwing away, compressing, underlining. Hindsight can give structure to anything, but you have to be able to see it. Breathing, waking and sleeping: our lives are steamed and shaped into stories. Knowing that is what keeps me from going insane, and though I don't like to admit it, sometimes it's the only thing.” [Carol Shields](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/carol-shields/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. We construct narratives from events, giving meaning to life through storytelling. **In simple terms:** Stories shape life. Key Takeaway Reflect to create personal narratives. Themes storytelling meaning structure Mood introspective analytical Type philosophical reflective When to use this quote - journaling - therapy - film making - history writing Key Concepts narrative psychology memory consolidation Questions to Reflect On - How do you choose which events to highlight? - Can you live without a story? 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