--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There is not a young man in our community…" description: "\"“There is not a young man in our community who would not be willing to travel from here to England to be married right, if he understood things as they..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d45/brigham-young-1075_brethren_there-is-not-a-young-man-in-our-communit_2981833.jpg" --- # There is not a young man in our community who would not be… ![“There is not a young man in our community who would not be willing to travel from here to England to be married right, if he understood things as they are; there is not a young woman in our community, who loves the Gospel and wishes its blessings, that would be married in any other way; they would…” quote by Brigham Young](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d45/brigham-young-1075_brethren_there-is-not-a-young-man-in-our-communit_2981833.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d45/brigham-young-1075_brethren_there-is-not-a-young-man-in-our-communit_2981833.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d45/brigham-young-1075_brethren_there-is-not-a-young-man-in-our-communit_2981833.jpg) > ““There is not a young man in our community who would not be willing to travel from here to England to be married right, if he understood things as they are; there is not a young woman in our community, who loves the Gospel and wishes its blessings, that would be married in any other way; they would live unmarried until they could be married as they should be, \[even\] if they lived until they were as old as Sarah before she had Isaac born to her \[see Genesis 17:17\]. Many of our brethren have married off their children without taking this into consideration, and thinking it a matter of little importance. I wish we all understood this in the light in which heaven understands it.”” [Brigham Young](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/brigham-young/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Members should prioritize divine timing for marriage, aligning with heavenly understanding rather than societal pressure. **In simple terms:** Marry according to divine timing, not pressure. Key Takeaway Seek spiritual guidance before marriage decisions. Themes marriage faith patience Mood thoughtful serious Type religious advisory When to use this quote - courtship - family planning - religious counseling Key Concepts divine timing community values Questions to Reflect On - How does divine timing affect your relationships? - What pressures influence your marriage choices? A Different Perspective Cultural norms may conflict with spiritual timing. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Marriage](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/marriage/) [Young woman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/young-woman/) ## Related quotes > [“If people do not believe in permanent marriage, it is perhaps better that they should live together unmarried than that they should make vows…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/c-s-lewis-2/if-people-do-not-believe-in-permanent-marriage-it-is-perhaps-better/) [C.S. Lewis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/c-s-lewis-2/) > [ “\[F\]rom my years of understanding ... 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