--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: A man who is kind benefits himself, but a…" description: "\"A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. - Proverbs 11:17\" — Bible" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/59b/bible-141_being-a-good-person_a-man-who-is-kind-benefits-himself-but-a_1808083.jpg" --- # A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts… ![“A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. - Proverbs 11:17” quote by Bible](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/59b/bible-141_being-a-good-person_a-man-who-is-kind-benefits-himself-but-a_1808083.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/59b/bible-141_being-a-good-person_a-man-who-is-kind-benefits-himself-but-a_1808083.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/59b/bible-141_being-a-good-person_a-man-who-is-kind-benefits-himself-but-a_1808083.jpg) > “A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. - Proverbs 11:17” [Bible](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/bible/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Kindness benefits the giver; cruelty harms the perpetrator. **In simple terms:** Being kind helps you; being cruel hurts you. Key Takeaway Choose kindness. Themes kindness self‑interest morality Mood hopeful serious Type scriptural didactic When to use this quote - personal behavior - community interactions Key Concepts spirituality ethics Questions to Reflect On - How can you protect yourself while staying kind? - What limits should kindness have? 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