--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: What is it?' 'Nothing,' he said, and put…" description: "\"“What is it?' 'Nothing,' he said, and put his arm around her. 'You sighed.' 'I'd like to be further along than I am.' She snuggled against his side. 'I..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/227/bernhard-schlink-3329_comingofage_what-is-it-nothing-he-said-and-put-his-a_120676.png" --- # What is it?' 'Nothing,' he said, and put his arm around… ![“What is it?' 'Nothing,' he said, and put his arm around her. 'You sighed.' 'I'd like to be further along than I am.' She snuggled against his side. 'I know that feeling. But don't we make progress in fits and starts? Nothing happens for a long time, then suddenly we get a surprise, have an…” quote by Bernhard Schlink](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/227/bernhard-schlink-3329_comingofage_what-is-it-nothing-he-said-and-put-his-a_120676.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/227/bernhard-schlink-3329_comingofage_what-is-it-nothing-he-said-and-put-his-a_120676.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/227/bernhard-schlink-3329_comingofage_what-is-it-nothing-he-said-and-put-his-a_120676.png) > ““What is it?' 'Nothing,' he said, and put his arm around her. 'You sighed.' 'I'd like to be further along than I am.' She snuggled against his side. 'I know that feeling. But don't we make progress in fits and starts? Nothing happens for a long time, then suddenly we get a surprise, have an encounter, reach a decision point, and we're no longer the same as we were before.”” [Bernhard Schlink](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/bernhard-schlink/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Personal growth is irregular: long periods of stagnation are punctuated by sudden insights or events that reshape us. **In simple terms:** Progress is uneven but transformative. Key Takeaway Change often arrives in unexpected bursts. 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