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title: "4 Terry Kay Quotes - Famous Novelist (The year the lights came on: a novel)"
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# Terry Kay

(1938–2020)   Novelist   United States

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Terry Kay was a novelist from the United States, best known for *The year the lights came on: a novel*.

## Quick Facts About Terry Kay

Born February 10, 1938

Died December 12, 2020

Nationality United States

Profession Novelist

Notable works The year the lights came on: a novel

## About Terry Kay

Terry Winter Kay was an American author, whose novels examined life in the American South. His most well-known book, To Dance with the White Dog, was made into a Hallmark Hall of Fame television movie starring Hume Cronyn and Jessica Tandy. Three of Kay's books became movies.

##  Quotes by Terry Kay

> [It is very painful to love someone and believe you cannot be with them.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/terry-kay/it-is-very-painful-to-love-someone-and-believe-you-cannot-be-with-them/)

[Terry Kay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/terry-kay/)

[Believe](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/believe/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/49d/terry-kay-65884_believe_it-is-very-painful-to-love-someone-and-b_351824.png)

> [One of the most enduring friendships in history - dogs and their people, people and their dogs.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/terry-kay/one-of-the-most-enduring-friendships-in-history-dogs-and-their-people/)

[Terry Kay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/terry-kay/)

[Animal](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/animal/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/9b2/terry-kay-65884_animal_one-of-the-most-enduring-friendships-in_905917.png)

> [Because of her, he had learned to look for the birds - the darting flight of wild canaries (yellow sun on yellow…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/terry-kay/because-of-her-he-had-learned-to-look-for-the-birds-the-darting/)

[Terry Kay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/terry-kay/)

[Bird](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/bird/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da4/terry-kay-65884_bird_because-of-her-he-had-learned-to-look-fo_1069293.png)

> [My wife of 57 years was buried today beside our son, who died in 1941 as a result of a truck accident…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/terry-kay/my-wife-of-57-years-was-buried-today-beside-our-son-who-died-in-1941/)

[Terry Kay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/terry-kay/)

[Accidents](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/accidents/)

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