--- title: "4 Monica McGoldrick Quotes" description: "Monica McGoldrick has 4 quotes on SMS4Smile. Browse their most insightful sayings." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2d4/monica-mcgoldrick-69024_family_all-too-often-people-are-not-aware-of-th_144844.jpg" --- # Monica McGoldrick **4** quotes in **15** categories Rate this collection: ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet ## Quotes by Monica McGoldrick > [“All too often people are not aware of the trait-----whether positive or negative----they have absorbed from their families. You may feel contempt…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/monica-mcgoldrick/all-too-often-people-are-not-aware-of-the-trait-whether-positive-or/) [Monica McGoldrick](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/monica-mcgoldrick/) [Family](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/family/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/2d4/monica-mcgoldrick-69024_family_all-too-often-people-are-not-aware-of-th_144844.jpg) > [“Losses may make us feel as if time had stopped. Families may close down, attempting to control those aspects of their world…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/monica-mcgoldrick/losses-may-make-us-feel-as-if-time-had-stopped-families-may-close/) [Monica McGoldrick](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/monica-mcgoldrick/) [Death](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/death/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/927/monica-mcgoldrick-69024_death_losses-may-make-us-feel-as-if-time-had-s_548857.jpg) > [“Unfortunately it is not possible to destroy our history. It lives inside us, probably the more powerful for our attempts to bury…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/monica-mcgoldrick/unfortunately-it-is-not-possible-to-destroy-our-history-it-lives/) [Monica McGoldrick](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/monica-mcgoldrick/) [Family](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/family/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/221/monica-mcgoldrick-69024_family_unfortunately-it-is-not-possible-to-dest_807424.jpg) > [“Most people avoid confronting family issues because they can't see a way to change the relationships they find so frustrating. The frustration…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/monica-mcgoldrick/most-people-avoid-confronting-family-issues-because-they-can-t-see-a/) [Monica McGoldrick](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/monica-mcgoldrick/) [Anger](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/anger/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/228/monica-mcgoldrick-69024_anger_most-people-avoid-confronting-family-iss_2173107.jpg) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/monica-mcgoldrick/#itemlist", "name": "Monica McGoldrick Quotes", "numberOfItems": 4, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“All too often people are not aware of the trait-----whether positive or negative----they have absorbed from their families. You may feel contempt for your family's pretentiousness and be unaware that you have absorbed some of the same mannerisms. 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