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# Ian Kerner

(1966)   Writer

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Ian Kerner is a writer.

## Quick Facts About Ian Kerner

Born May 1, 1966

Profession Writer

## About Ian Kerner

American writer... \| Ian Kerner is an American sex counselor, practitioner of psychotherapy, and author on pleasuring sex partners. He works in sex therapy and couples therapy.

##  Quotes by Ian Kerner

> [“One should not make more assumptions than are absolutely necessary.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ian-kerner/one-should-not-make-more-assumptions-than-are-absolutely-necessary/)

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[Assumptions](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/assumptions/)

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> [“Imagine going through years of your life with the gut feeling that none of it really matters yet, that it will start…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ian-kerner/imagine-going-through-years-of-your-life-with-the-gut-feeling-that/)

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[Feeling](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/feeling/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cc6/ian-kerner-70219_fill-in-the-blank_imagine-going-through-years-of-your-life_1443252.jpg)

> [“hugging each other at least three times a day: once before leaving for work, a second time when arriving home, and a…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ian-kerner/hugging-each-other-at-least-three-times-a-day-once-before-leaving-for/)

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[Hugging](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/hugging/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/83a/ian-kerner-70219_hugging_hugging-each-other-at-least-three-times_2254825.jpg)

> [“I came to the realization that I needed to become my best self in order to attract the kind of guy I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ian-kerner/i-came-to-the-realization-that-i-needed-to-become-my-best-self-in/)

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[Attract](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/attract/)

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