--- title: "3 Elan Golomb Quotes" description: "Elan Golomb has 3 quotes on SMS4Smile. Browse their most insightful sayings." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b021/author-elan-golomb-83163.jpg" --- ![Portrait of Elan Golomb](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b021/author-elan-golomb-83163.jpg) # Elan Golomb **3** quotes in **18** categories Rate this collection: ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet ## Quotes by Elan Golomb > [“Often, her mate is the child of a narcissist, already indoctrinated to regard exploitation and disregard as love. Others lured by the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/elan-golomb/often-her-mate-is-the-child-of-a-narcissist-already-indoctrinated-to/) [Elan Golomb](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elan-golomb/) [Children](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/children/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/3d7/elan-golomb-83163_children_often-her-mate-is-the-child-of-a-narciss_52661.jpg) > [“We can use techniques to become our selves and to develop the self. Techniques are different from the roles our narcissistic parents…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/elan-golomb/we-can-use-techniques-to-become-our-selves-and-to-develop-the-self/) [Elan Golomb](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elan-golomb/) [Identity](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/identity/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6cd/elan-golomb-83163_identity_we-can-use-techniques-to-become-our-selv_571902.jpg) > [“Children of narcissists emerge from this crucible with a common and most serious problem. They feel that they do not have the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/elan-golomb/children-of-narcissists-emerge-from-this-crucible-with-a-common-and/) [Elan Golomb](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elan-golomb/) [Child](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/child/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7b2/elan-golomb-83163_child_children-of-narcissists-emerge-from-this_2949081.jpg) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/elan-golomb/#itemlist", "name": "Elan Golomb Quotes", "numberOfItems": 3, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“Often, her mate is the child of a narcissist, already indoctrinated to regard exploitation and disregard as love. Others lured by the narcissistic aura are those in whom healthy childhood exhibitionism has been repressed. . . . If the parent puts the child to shame for showing off, the need for attention gets repressed into the unconscious. Repression means that the need is not satisfied and continues to press for expression in the adult without her being aware of it. 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