--- title: "3 Becker Ernest Quotes" description: "Becker Ernest has 3 quotes on SMS4Smile. Browse their most insightful sayings." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b022/author-becker-ernest-86902.jpg" --- ![Portrait of Becker Ernest](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b022/author-becker-ernest-86902.jpg) # Becker Ernest **3** quotes in **13** categories Rate this collection: ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet ## Quotes by Becker Ernest > [“The only thing we accomplish by accenting the child’s constitution, his temperament, his natural dilemmas and his own synthesizing activity, is to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/becker-ernest/the-only-thing-we-accomplish-by-accenting-the-child-s-constitution/) Becker Ernest [Children](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/children/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/9f5/becker-ernest-86902_children_the-only-thing-we-accomplish-by-accentin_1145458.jpg) > [“By the time we grow up we become masters at dissimulation, at cultivating a self that the world cannot probe. But we…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/becker-ernest/by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters-at-dissimulation-at/) Becker Ernest [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/705/becker-ernest-86902_different-world_by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters_1516321.jpg) > [“Try repeating “man is an animal" a few times, just to notice how unconvincing it sounds. There seems to be no way…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/becker-ernest/try-repeating-man-is-an-animal-a-few-times-just-to-notice-how/) Becker Ernest [Animal](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/animal/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7a5/becker-ernest-86902_animal_try-repeating-man-is-an-animal-a-few-tim_3051537.jpg) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/becker-ernest/#itemlist", "name": "Becker Ernest Quotes", "numberOfItems": 3, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“The only thing we accomplish by accenting the child’s constitution, his temperament, his natural dilemmas and his own synthesizing activity, is to take the parents “off the hook\" of their own burden of guilt for how their children turn out. But why should they have such unreasonable guilt anyway? Didn’t Nietzsche point out that the only creatures who deserve to feel guilt (or pride) are gods, since only they have undisputed freedom of action? 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But we pay a price. After years of turning people away, of protecting our inner self, of cultivating it by living in a different world, of furnishing this world with our fantasies and dreams—lo and behold we find that we are hopelessly separated from everyone else. We have become victims of our own art. We touch people on the outsides of their bodies, and they us, but we cannot get at their insides and cannot reveal our insides to them. This is one of the great tragedies of our interiority—it is utterly personal and unrevealable. Often we want to say something unusually intimate to a spouse, a parent, a friend, communicate something of how we are really feeling about a sunset, who we really feel we are—only to fall strangely and miserably flat. Once in a great while we succeed, sometimes more with one person, less or never with others. But the occasional break-through only proves the rule. You reach out with a disclosure, fail, and fall back bitterly into yourself. We emit huge globs of love to our parents and spouses, and the glob slithers away in exchange of words that are somehow beside the point of what we are trying to say. People seem to keep bumping up against each other with their exteriors and falling away from each other. The cartoonist Jules Feiffer is the modern master of this aspect of the human tragedy. Take even the sexual act—the most intimate merger given to organisms. For most people, even for their entire lives, it is simply a joining of exteriors. The insides melt only in the moment of orgasm, but even this is brief, and a melting is not a communication. It is a physical overcoming of separateness, not a symbolic revelation and justification of one’s interior. many people pursue sex precisely because it is a mystique of the overcoming of the separateness of the inner world, and they go from one partner to another because they can never quite achieve “it.\" So the endless interrogations: “What are you thinking about right now—me? Do you feel what I feel? Do you love me?”", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Becker Ernest" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/becker-ernest/by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters-at-dissimulation-at/", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/705/becker-ernest-86902_different-world_by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters_1516321.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/705/becker-ernest-86902_different-world_by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters_1516321.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/705/becker-ernest-86902_different-world_by-the-time-we-grow-up-we-become-masters_1516321.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“By the time we grow up we become masters at dissimulation, at cultivating a self that the world cannot…” — Becker Ernest", "creditText": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "creator": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } } } }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 3, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“Try repeating “man is an animal\" a few times, just to notice how unconvincing it sounds. There seems to be no way to get this idea into our heads, except by long rumination over the facts of evolution or perhaps by exposure to a primitive tribe or by being raised on a farm. Primitives sometimes see little difference between themselves and the animals around them. Karl von den Steinen was told by a Xingu that the only difference between them and the monkey was that they monkeys lacked the bow and arrow. And Jules Henry observed on the Kningang that dogs are not considered pets, like some of the other animals, but are on a level of emotional equality, like a relative. But in our own Western culture we have, for the most part, set a great distance between ourselves and the rest of nature, and language helps us to do this. Thus we say that a sheep “drops\" its lamb, but a woman “gives birth\"—it’s much more noble. 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