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# Alan E. Fruzzetti

Psychologist

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Alan E. Fruzzetti is a psychologist.

## Quick Facts About Alan E. Fruzzetti

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## About Alan E. Fruzzetti

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##  Quotes by Alan E. Fruzzetti

> [“Of course, it is painful when your partner verbally attacks you. Recognize that by responding in kind, you are almost guaranteeing more…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/alan-e-fruzzetti/of-course-it-is-painful-when-your-partner-verbally-attacks-you/)

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[Painful](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/painful/)

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> [“Well, refusing to continue to fight to the death (of your relationship) is hardly surrendering. Rather, if defeating your partner is also…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/alan-e-fruzzetti/well-refusing-to-continue-to-fight-to-the-death-of-your-relationship/)

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[Courage](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/courage/)

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> [“How High Emotional Arousal Affects Your Relationship There are many ways that negative emotional arousal affects your relationship, both directly and indirectly.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/alan-e-fruzzetti/how-high-emotional-arousal-affects-your-relationship-there-are-many/)

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[Arousal](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/arousal/)

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