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#  I think we assume a lot about both genders. But in…

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> “I think we assume a lot about both genders. But in particular I think we assume that only boys play games and that boys are only interested in playing games that reflect their narratives and their interests.”

[Ashly Burch](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ashly-burch/)

## About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Society often stereotypes gender roles, assuming gaming is a male domain and that games must reflect male narratives.

**In simple terms:** Gender stereotypes limit who feels welcome in gaming.

Key Takeaway

Challenge and, inclusive narratives.

Themes

gender gaming stereotypes

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

social cultural

When to use this quote

- game design
- marketing
- community building
- education
- policy making

Key Concepts

representation identity media influence

Questions to Reflect On

- How can we broaden game narratives?
- What steps can creators take to be inclusive?

A Different Perspective

Assumptions can be deeply ingrained and resistant to change.

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