--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Every once in awhile, have a really good…" description: "\"“Every once in awhile, have a really good argument with yourself. I mean really get pissed off. Take both sides. Then look in the mirror, and in the mi..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16d/art-hochberg-1133_arguing_every-once-in-awhile-have-a-really-good_354170.jpg" --- # Every once in awhile, have a really good argument with… ![“Every once in awhile, have a really good argument with yourself. I mean really get pissed off. Take both sides. Then look in the mirror, and in the middle of the argument say, “You know, you’re a pain in my butt. I’m not arguing with you. Get lost.” quote by Art Hochberg](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16d/art-hochberg-1133_arguing_every-once-in-awhile-have-a-really-good_354170.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16d/art-hochberg-1133_arguing_every-once-in-awhile-have-a-really-good_354170.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16d/art-hochberg-1133_arguing_every-once-in-awhile-have-a-really-good_354170.jpg) > ““Every once in awhile, have a really good argument with yourself. I mean really get pissed off. Take both sides. Then look in the mirror, and in the middle of the argument say, “You know, you’re a pain in my butt. I’m not arguing with you. Get lost.”” [Art Hochberg](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/art-hochberg/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Engaging in an internal debate, then humorously dismissing oneself, highlights self‑critique and mental clarity. **In simple terms:** Argue with yourself, then tell yourself to stop. Key Takeaway Use self‑argument to uncover inner conflicts. Themes self‑reflection conflict humor mental health Mood introspective light‑hearted Type advice philosophical When to use this quote - stress management - personal growth - mindfulness Key Concepts cognitive dissonance self‑talk emotional regulation Questions to Reflect On - What internal arguments hinder you? - How can you end self‑criticism constructively? A Different Perspective Self‑argument may reinforce negativity if not resolved. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Humor](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/humor/) [Inspirational](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/inspirational/) ## Related quotes > [When we're talking about feminism, I get sort of lost in the argument. 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