--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Never try to get your kid to eat anything…" description: "\"Never try to get your kid to eat anything she doesn't already want to eat. Just eat interesting stuff in front of her while completely ignoring her. Ne..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/095/anthony-bourdain-649_fronts_never-try-to-get-your-kid-to-eat-anythin_1062737.jpg" --- # Never try to get your kid to eat anything she doesn't… ![“Never try to get your kid to eat anything she doesn't already want to eat. Just eat interesting stuff in front of her while completely ignoring her. Never, ever suggest "try it." Never say those dreaded words "try it, it's good." Or worse, "It's good for you." That'll poison the well.” quote by Anthony Bourdain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/095/anthony-bourdain-649_fronts_never-try-to-get-your-kid-to-eat-anythin_1062737.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/095/anthony-bourdain-649_fronts_never-try-to-get-your-kid-to-eat-anythin_1062737.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/095/anthony-bourdain-649_fronts_never-try-to-get-your-kid-to-eat-anythin_1062737.jpg) > “Never try to get your kid to eat anything she doesn't already want to eat. Just eat interesting stuff in front of her while completely ignoring her. Never, ever suggest "try it." Never say those dreaded words "try it, it's good." Or worse, "It's good for you." That'll poison the well.” [Anthony Bourdain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anthony-bourdain/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Children learn eating habits by modeling; forcing or urging them creates resistance and negative associations. **In simple terms:** Kids copy what they see; pressure backfires. Key Takeaway Model healthy eating without pressure. Themes parenting nutrition behavioral modeling Mood encouraging reflective Type advice parenting When to use this quote - family meals - school lunch - parent‑child interactions Key Concepts social learning autonomy negative reinforcement Questions to Reflect On - How can you make healthy foods appealing without pressure? - What habits do you model at me? 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