--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I…" description: "\"You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see you as often as I like, its not when I dont think of you at night, its when I start loving yo..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg" --- # You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see… ![“You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see you as often as I like, its not when I dont think of you at night, its when I start loving you knowing that its not right.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg) > “You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see you as often as I like, its not when I dont think of you at night, its when I start loving you knowing that its not right.” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Love feels painful when it is forbidden, outweighing other hardships. **In simple terms:** Forbidden love hurts more than anything else. Key Takeaway Accept or let go of impossible love. Themes love pain conflict Mood melancholy conflicted Type romantic emotional When to use this quote - unrequited love - long‑distance relationships - ethical dilemmas - personal sacrifice Key Concepts Forbidden relationships emotional turmoil Questions to Reflect On - Is the pain of forbidden love worth the joy? - What boundaries define a relationship as “not right”? A Different Perspective Love may cause more suffering than other problems. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Being hurt](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/being-hurt/) [Being hurt by someone you love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/being-hurt-by-someone-you-love/) [Bitter love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/bitter-love/) [Broken love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/broken-love/) [Complicated love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/complicated-love/) [Destiny](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/destiny/) [Goodbye](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/goodbye/) [Love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/love/) [Night](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/night/) [Relationship](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/relationship/) [Sad relationship](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/sad-relationship/) ## Related quotes > [You said you didnt want to see me get hurt. Does that mean you closed your eyes when I cried?](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-said-you-didnt-want-to-see-me-get-hurt-does-that-mean-you-closed/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Don't kill yourself trying to please others because if u have to go that hard they dont deserve your friendship.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/don-t-kill-yourself-trying-to-please-others-because-if-u-have-to-go/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Wanna know whats hard ? It's when you are still communicating to the person you want to forget!](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/wanna-know-whats-hard-it-s-when-you-are-still-communicating-to-the/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I'm finally strong enough to let him go and move on with my life. But you know whats hard? I still set up at…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-m-finally-strong-enough-to-let-him-go-and-move-on-with-my-life-but/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Funny how people we love the most know how to make us sad.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/mark-raymond-abad/funny-how-people-we-love-the-most-know-how-to-make-us-sad/) [Mark Raymond Abad](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mark-raymond-abad/) > [I have come to realize that destiny can hurt a person as much as it can bless then I found myself wondering why out…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-have-come-to-realize-that-destiny-can-hurt-a-person-as-much-as-it/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Cinderella, that wench, did a very bad thing¦giving hope to poor girls.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/cinderella-that-wench-did-a-very-bad-thing-giving-hope-to-poor-girls/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [People say that I have loved you my best. They say that my best was more than enough than what I could have offered…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/people-say-that-i-have-loved-you-my-best-they-say-that-my-best-was/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [There are those people who love only once in their lives. Maybe I am one of them.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/there-are-those-people-who-love-only-once-in-their-lives-maybe-i-am/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [A persons heart has countless levels. Its depth cannot be known. Its limit cant be known. You could fight to the death, and then…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/a-persons-heart-has-countless-levels-its-depth-cannot-be-known-its/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [An age where you feel like you could love anyone, where you put everything on the line for the smallest things. Eighteen. Adults say…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/an-age-where-you-feel-like-you-could-love-anyone-where-you-put/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You just walk in and out of my life while I'm trying hard to stay in yours.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-just-walk-in-and-out-of-my-life-while-i-m-trying-hard-to-stay-in/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [If it's too hard, walk away. There are a million other people out there who won't make you feel bad!](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/if-it-s-too-hard-walk-away-there-are-a-million-other-people-out-there/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Love is possible after friendship but friendship is not possible after love , because medicine works before death after death nothing is cured](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/love-is-possible-after-friendship-but-friendship-is-not-possible-2/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Maybe my $1 and his $1 don't have same value in your eyes.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/maybe-my-1-and-his-1-don-t-have-same-value-in-your-eyes/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More by Anonymous > [And a tear rolled down her cheek, as she said goodbye; because she's walking away, and she's never looking back](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/and-a-tear-rolled-down-her-cheek-as-she-said-goodbye-because-she-s/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Life is full of change. That's how we learn and grow.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/life-is-full-of-change-that-s-how-we-learn-and-grow/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-ll-seldom-experience-regret-for-anything-that-you-ve-done-it-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Scrabble - The game is available in Braille. That’s a nice fact. This makes me feel better about humanity for some reason. I can’t…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/scrabble-the-game-is-available-in-braille-that-s-a-nice-fact-this/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Everyone needs someone to love, and I choose you.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/everyone-needs-someone-to-love-and-i-choose-you/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“THIS tale of my sore-troubled life I write,    To thank the God of nature, who conveyed    My soul to me, and with such care…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/this-tale-of-my-sore-troubled-life-i-write-to-thank-the-god-of-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Put on my J's and dance the whole night away Im naughty by nature like Im hip-hop hooray With my hands in the sky,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/put-on-my-j-s-and-dance-the-whole-night-away-im-naughty-by-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Me.. I have been through a lot, but I still manage to have a smile on my face. Im not worried about the past…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/me-i-have-been-through-a-lot-but-i-still-manage-to-have-a-smile-on-my/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Distance is a test of love. many will fail for those who can't withstand it, but for those who can, theres only one answer…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/distance-is-a-test-of-love-many-will-fail-for-those-who-can-t/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Im sorry I ever tried...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/im-sorry-i-ever-tried/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being betrayed by the one you love is the worst feeling in the world...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/being-betrayed-by-the-one-you-love-is-the-worst-feeling-in-the-world/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Let children support their parents or be imprisoned.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/let-children-support-their-parents-or-be-imprisoned/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The only person I've ever purposely caused pain here is myself...By simply sharing, caring too much.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-only-person-i-ve-ever-purposely-caused-pain-here-is-myself-by/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“Start a business, not a startup”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/start-a-business-not-a-startup/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The truth is, of course, that the curtness of the Ten Commandments is an evidence, not of the gloom and narrowness of a religion,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-truth-is-of-course-that-the-curtness-of-the-ten-commandments-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) [Explore all 162,899 Anonymous quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More Being hurt quotes > [Just because you treat someone like royalty , doesn't mean they won't treat you like crap.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tyler-young/just-because-you-treat-someone-like-royalty-doesn-t-mean-they-won-t/) Tyler Young > [The one thing I absolutely hate about social media are the people who abuse it. Whenever I see a person who constantly posts negative…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/jazmin-garcia/the-one-thing-i-absolutely-hate-about-social-media-are-the-people-who/) [Jazmin Garcia](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jazmin-garcia/) > [Scars by Papa Roach. <3](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/sophielianne/scars-by-papa-roach-3/) Sophielianne > [In life, grief was a journey through a forest of razor blades. I walked through every painful inch of it no shortcuts and no…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/in-life-grief-was-a-journey-through-a-forest-of-razor-blades-i-walked/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [When you are not there in my life its like: Shoes without shoe laces A letter without a stamp A flower with no roots…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/when-you-are-not-there-in-my-life-its-like-shoes-without-shoe-laces-a/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You're trying too HARD to convince me that you're a TRUE friend & DEEP Down Inside you know you're not but you stick around…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ta-nisha-marie/you-re-trying-too-hard-to-convince-me-that-you-re-a-true-friend-deep/) [Ta'Nisha Marie](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ta-nisha-marie/) > [You took my happiness with you and left this horrible sadness.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-took-my-happiness-with-you-and-left-this-horrible-sadness/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Break up was not made for you to cry.. But to take you away from the wrong man who you thought was the right…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/break-up-was-not-made-for-you-to-cry-but-to-take-you-away-from-the/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Im afraid of being forgotten. Because, it seems everyone I get close to, ends up forgetting me.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/arcine-arciniegas/im-afraid-of-being-forgotten-because-it-seems-everyone-i-get-close-to/) [Arcine Arciniegas](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/arcine-arciniegas/) > [The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ted-hughes/the-only-calibration-that-counts-is-how-much-heart-people-invest-how/) [Ted Hughes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ted-hughes/) > [It isn't easy being strong, especially when its the only choice you really have!](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/mislali/it-isn-t-easy-being-strong-especially-when-its-the-only-choice-you/) [MisLali](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mislali/) > [I wish that one day you would finally realize that the person that is willing to love you forever is the person you are…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/khat-leen/i-wish-that-one-day-you-would-finally-realize-that-the-person-that-is/) [Khat Leen](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/khat-leen/) > [When love has been wounded; trust, reassurance, honesty, and intimacy, in abundance, are the only known cures](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/when-love-has-been-wounded-trust-reassurance-honesty-and-intimacy-in/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Stop blaming others, whatever happens to you is nobody's fault if you get hurt because of disappointment is not the end of your life…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemmy-nola/stop-blaming-others-whatever-happens-to-you-is-nobody-s-fault-if-you/) [Kemmy Nola](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemmy-nola/) > [I dont feel right when youre gone away. We must have had something real strong, Im tossing and turning all night.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-dont-feel-right-when-youre-gone-away-we-must-have-had-something/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) [Browse all 1,882 Being hurt quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/being-hurt/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see you as often as I like, its not when I dont think of you at night, its when I start loving you knowing that its not right.", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Anonymous" }, "isPartOf": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i-dont-get-to-see-you-as-often/", "about": { "@type": "Thing", "name": "Being hurt" }, "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i-dont-get-to-see-you-as-often/#quotation", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/anonymous-1_being-hurt_you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i_572627.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“You wanna know whats hard? Its not when I dont get to see you as often as I like, its not when I dont think…” — Anonymous", "creditText": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "creator": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } } }, { "@type": "BreadcrumbList", "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "name": "Home", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 2, "name": "Quotes", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 3, "name": "Anonymous", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 4, "name": "You wanna know whats hard? Its...", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i-dont-get-to-see-you-as-often/" } ], "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-wanna-know-whats-hard-its-not-when-i-dont-get-to-see-you-as-often/#breadcrumb" }, { "@type": "WebSite", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "publisher": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } }, { "@type": "Organization", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "logo": { "@type": "ImageObject", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/themes/sq/assets/icons/icon-512.png", "width": 512, "height": 512 } } ] } ```