--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: think so. It seems really sexy being tied…" description: "\"“think so. It seems really sexy being tied up during sex. Is that weird?” “Not at all. Many people, men and women, enjoy giving up control during sexua..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/282/anonymous-1_men-and-women_think-so-it-seems-really-sexy-being-tied_299719.jpg" --- # think so. It seems really sexy being tied up during sex… ![“think so. It seems really sexy being tied up during sex. Is that weird?” “Not at all. Many people, men and women, enjoy giving up control during sexual encounters and putting their bodies and even their lives in the hands of their partners. It’s called sexual submission. Others, like me, enjoy the…” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/282/anonymous-1_men-and-women_think-so-it-seems-really-sexy-being-tied_299719.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/282/anonymous-1_men-and-women_think-so-it-seems-really-sexy-being-tied_299719.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/282/anonymous-1_men-and-women_think-so-it-seems-really-sexy-being-tied_299719.jpg) > ““think so. It seems really sexy being tied up during sex. Is that weird?” “Not at all. Many people, men and women, enjoy giving up control during sexual encounters and putting their bodies and even their lives in the hands of their partners. It’s called sexual submission. Others, like me, enjoy the opposite. Taking total control of someone and dominating them.” Eleanor shivered at Søren’s words. She didn’t expect such a personal revelation from him about his sexual desires—he wanted to take control of her? To dominate her? “Makes sense,” she said, trying to keep her voice neutral. “I enjoy your obedience to me much the same way you feel certain you would enjoy being tied up during sex.” “It turns you on?” Søren met her eyes and in them she saw the world set itself alight and burn to ashes. “More than you can possibly imagine.” Eleanor pressed her hand to his chest and felt his heart rushing under her fingers.”” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A dialogue exploring mutual sexual dominance and submission, highlighting consensual power exchange. **In simple terms:** People can share control in sex consensually. Key Takeaway Embrace open communication about desires. 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