--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: People are always trying to comfort me by…" description: "\"People are always trying to comfort me by saying, You did fine before you met him so you can live without him. But thats just it I really didnt live un..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/274/anonymous-1_comfort_people-are-always-trying-to-comfort-me-b_2781320.jpg" --- # People are always trying to comfort me by saying, You did… ![“People are always trying to comfort me by saying, You did fine before you met him so you can live without him. But thats just it I really didnt live until I met him.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/274/anonymous-1_comfort_people-are-always-trying-to-comfort-me-b_2781320.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/274/anonymous-1_comfort_people-are-always-trying-to-comfort-me-b_2781320.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/274/anonymous-1_comfort_people-are-always-trying-to-comfort-me-b_2781320.jpg) > “People are always trying to comfort me by saying, You did fine before you met him so you can live without him. But thats just it I really didnt live until I met him.” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Comforting words can overlook personal growth that comes from deep emotional experiences. **In simple terms:** Growth often follows intense love. Key Takeaway Embrace love’s transformative power. Themes love growth comfort Mood introspective hopeful Type reflective inspirational When to use this quote - relationships - breakups - self-discovery - healing - null Key Concepts emotional development personal narrative Questions to Reflect On - Do you feel love changed you? - What lessons did you learn after love? A Different Perspective Comfort may ignore the pain that fuels change. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Comfort](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/comfort/) [Heartache](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/heartache/) [Heartbreak](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/heartbreak/) ## Related quotes > [“There's some comfort in saying, I'm joining this long line of humanity. 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But it does not begin…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/of-course-i-quite-agree-that-the-christian-religion-is-in-the-long/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [It's hard to forget someone whom you've imagined spending forever with.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/it-s-hard-to-forget-someone-whom-you-ve-imagined-spending-forever-with/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Sometimes you just have to give up on people. Chasing after them is a heartache, especially when they dont try to meet you half…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/sometimes-you-just-have-to-give-up-on-people-chasing-after-them-is-a/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Its so nice sitting in the quiet room every day, nobody hearing how my heart breaks away.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/its-so-nice-sitting-in-the-quiet-room-every-day-nobody-hearing-how-my/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I hate this feeling. It's one I know all too well. It's a thing called heartbreak and it hurts like hell.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-hate-this-feeling-it-s-one-i-know-all-too-well-it-s-a-thing-called/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Right now am learning how to be okay without you. And I cant wait for the day when I get to look at you…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/right-now-am-learning-how-to-be-okay-without-you-and-i-cant-wait-for/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [And everyone knows the louder the music the bigger the heartbreak.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/and-everyone-knows-the-louder-the-music-the-bigger-the-heartbreak/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [But then I realised I was holding on to something that didn't exist anymore. That the person I missed didn't exist anymore. People change.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/but-then-i-realised-i-was-holding-on-to-something-that-didn-t-exist/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [One day, you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die. However, the saddest, most awful truth you…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/one-day-you-will-stumble-upon-someone-who-will-start-a-fire-in-you/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I gave you my heart and what did you do? You took it in your hands and ripped it in two.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-gave-you-my-heart-and-what-did-you-do-you-took-it-in-your-hands-and/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I am physically and emotionally in pain,but sad to say no one is trying to comfort or even help me.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/yingkaii/i-am-physically-and-emotionally-in-pain-but-sad-to-say-no-one-is/) [Yingkaii](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/yingkaii/) > [“Cade shifted against the sheets, trying to ease his painful erection. He was going against every protocol there was. Sleeping in the same bed…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/katie-reus/cade-shifted-against-the-sheets-trying-to-ease-his-painful-erection/) [Katie Reus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/katie-reus/) > [You needn't be trying to comfort me, I tell you my dolly is dead! There's no use in saying she isn't, With a crack…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/margaret-janvier/you-needn-t-be-trying-to-comfort-me-i-tell-you-my-dolly-is-dead-there/) Margaret Janvier ## More by Anonymous > [And a tear rolled down her cheek, as she said goodbye; because she's walking away, and she's never looking back](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/and-a-tear-rolled-down-her-cheek-as-she-said-goodbye-because-she-s/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Life is full of change. That's how we learn and grow.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/life-is-full-of-change-that-s-how-we-learn-and-grow/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-ll-seldom-experience-regret-for-anything-that-you-ve-done-it-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Scrabble - The game is available in Braille. That’s a nice fact. This makes me feel better about humanity for some reason. I can’t…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/scrabble-the-game-is-available-in-braille-that-s-a-nice-fact-this/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Everyone needs someone to love, and I choose you.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/everyone-needs-someone-to-love-and-i-choose-you/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“THIS tale of my sore-troubled life I write,    To thank the God of nature, who conveyed    My soul to me, and with such care…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/this-tale-of-my-sore-troubled-life-i-write-to-thank-the-god-of-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Put on my J's and dance the whole night away Im naughty by nature like Im hip-hop hooray With my hands in the sky,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/put-on-my-j-s-and-dance-the-whole-night-away-im-naughty-by-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Me.. I have been through a lot, but I still manage to have a smile on my face. Im not worried about the past…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/me-i-have-been-through-a-lot-but-i-still-manage-to-have-a-smile-on-my/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Distance is a test of love. many will fail for those who can't withstand it, but for those who can, theres only one answer…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/distance-is-a-test-of-love-many-will-fail-for-those-who-can-t/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Im sorry I ever tried...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/im-sorry-i-ever-tried/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being betrayed by the one you love is the worst feeling in the world...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/being-betrayed-by-the-one-you-love-is-the-worst-feeling-in-the-world/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Let children support their parents or be imprisoned.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/let-children-support-their-parents-or-be-imprisoned/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The only person I've ever purposely caused pain here is myself...By simply sharing, caring too much.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-only-person-i-ve-ever-purposely-caused-pain-here-is-myself-by/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“Start a business, not a startup”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/start-a-business-not-a-startup/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The truth is, of course, that the curtness of the Ten Commandments is an evidence, not of the gloom and narrowness of a religion,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-truth-is-of-course-that-the-curtness-of-the-ten-commandments-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) [Explore all 162,899 Anonymous quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More Comfort quotes > [The house has to serve comfort. The work of art is revolutionary; the house is conservative.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/adolf-loos/the-house-has-to-serve-comfort-the-work-of-art-is-revolutionary-the/) [Adolf Loos](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/adolf-loos/) > [Don't take too much comfort in the fact that you're successful today because tomorrow could bring failure. There's no surety in life.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/michael-savage/don-t-take-too-much-comfort-in-the-fact-that-you-re-successful-today/) [Michael Savage](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/michael-savage/) > [For many, the call to be a Christian can seem demanding, even overwhelming. But we need not be afraid or feel inadequate. The Savior…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/robert-d-hales/for-many-the-call-to-be-a-christian-can-seem-demanding-even/) [Robert D. Hales](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/robert-d-hales/) > [This is no time for ease and comfort. It is time to dare and endure.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/winston-churchill/this-is-no-time-for-ease-and-comfort-it-is-time-to-dare-and-endure/) [Winston Churchill](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/winston-churchill/) > [There is a comfort in rituals, and rituals provide a framework for stability when you are trying to find answers.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deborah-norville/there-is-a-comfort-in-rituals-and-rituals-provide-a-framework-for/) [Deborah Norville](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deborah-norville/) > [Now I am in the place I call this wide wide Heaven because it includes all my simplest desires but also the most humble…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/alice-sebold/now-i-am-in-the-place-i-call-this-wide-wide-heaven-because-it/) [Alice Sebold](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/alice-sebold/) > [“When you get lost in a really strange place, nothing is more comforting than found your friend whom you trust and can show the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/toba-beta/when-you-get-lost-in-a-really-strange-place-nothing-is-more/) [Toba Beta](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/toba-beta/) > [Comfort food is really anything you want at that time. That said, I really love Naple-style pizza.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/geoffrey-zakarian/comfort-food-is-really-anything-you-want-at-that-time-that-said-i/) [Geoffrey Zakarian](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/geoffrey-zakarian/) > [I actually like getting out of my comfort zone. It shakes me up.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gail-sheehy/i-actually-like-getting-out-of-my-comfort-zone-it-shakes-me-up/) [Gail Sheehy](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gail-sheehy/) > [A time will come when the science of destruction shall bend before the arts of peace; when the genius which multiplies our powers, which…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/francois-arago/a-time-will-come-when-the-science-of-destruction-shall-bend-before/) [Francois Arago](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/francois-arago/) > [Throughout human history, as our species has faced the frightening, terrorizing fact that we do not know who we are, or where we are…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/timothy-leary/throughout-human-history-as-our-species-has-faced-the-frightening/) [Timothy Leary](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/timothy-leary/) > [Worship is not about personality, temperament, personal limitations, church background, or comfort. It is about God.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/john-wimber/worship-is-not-about-personality-temperament-personal-limitations/) [John Wimber](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/john-wimber/) > [May God bless each of us in our calls to serve. May our faith strengthen as we serve in righteousness, faithfully keeping the commandments.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/l-tom-perry/may-god-bless-each-of-us-in-our-calls-to-serve-may-our-faith/) [L. Tom Perry](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/l-tom-perry/) > [Maybe that was why she couldn't cry, she realized, staring dry-eyed at the ceiling. Because what was the point in crying when there was…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/cassandra-clare/maybe-that-was-why-she-couldn-t-cry-she-realized-staring-dry-eyed-at/) [Cassandra Clare](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/cassandra-clare/) > [I think that comfort is underrated in a lot of ways.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/phoebe-robinson/i-think-that-comfort-is-underrated-in-a-lot-of-ways/) [Phoebe Robinson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/phoebe-robinson/) [Browse all 4,542 Comfort quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/comfort/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "People are always trying to comfort me by saying, You did fine before you met him so you can live without him. 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