--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Look at children. Of course they may…" description: "\"Look at children. Of course they may quarrel, but generally speaking they do not harbor ill feelings as much or as long as adults do. Most adults have ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/438/anonymous-1_adults_look-at-children-of-course-they-may-quar_2400920.jpg" --- # Look at children. Of course they may quarrel, but… ![“Look at children. Of course they may quarrel, but generally speaking they do not harbor ill feelings as much or as long as adults do. Most adults have the advantage of education over children, but what is the use of an education if they show a big smile while hiding negative feelings deep inside?…” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/438/anonymous-1_adults_look-at-children-of-course-they-may-quar_2400920.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/438/anonymous-1_adults_look-at-children-of-course-they-may-quar_2400920.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/438/anonymous-1_adults_look-at-children-of-course-they-may-quar_2400920.jpg) > “Look at children. Of course they may quarrel, but generally speaking they do not harbor ill feelings as much or as long as adults do. Most adults have the advantage of education over children, but what is the use of an education if they show a big smile while hiding negative feelings deep inside? Children don�t usually act in such a manner. If they feel angry with someone, they express it, and then it is finished. They can still play with that person the following day.” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Children express emotions openly and resolve conflicts quickly, unlike adults who often suppress negative feelings. **In simple terms:** Kids are open with feelings; adults hide them. Key Takeaway Encourage honest emotional expression. Themes emotions conflict resolution authenticity Mood reflective concerned Type observational advice When to use this quote - family dynamics - workplace - friendships - education - mental health Key Concepts psychology emotional intelligence Questions to Reflect On - How can we model open emotional expression for others? - What habits help release suppressed feelings? 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