--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It's not about what you didn't feel, it's…" description: "\"It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you didn't show.\" — Anonymous" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg" --- # It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you… ![“It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you didn't show.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg) > “It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you didn't show.” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Emphasizes that unexpressed emotions are more significant than feelings not felt. **In simple terms:** What you hide matters more than what you never felt. Key Takeaway Express emotions honestly. Themes emotional honesty self‑awareness communication Mood introspective serious Type philosophical advice When to use this quote - therapy - personal relationships - leadership training - conflict resolution Key Concepts psychology interpersonal dynamics vulnerability Questions to Reflect On - What emotions are you hiding? - How does concealment affect relationships? 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I don't get it...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/what-s-really-the-point-of-leading-someone-on-just-to-screw-them-over/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Nothing is more disappointing than a birthday card with no money inside.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/nothing-is-more-disappointing-than-a-birthday-card-with-no-money/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Nothing sucks more than being disappointed with yourself. 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That's how we learn and grow.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/life-is-full-of-change-that-s-how-we-learn-and-grow/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-ll-seldom-experience-regret-for-anything-that-you-ve-done-it-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Scrabble - The game is available in Braille. That’s a nice fact. This makes me feel better about humanity for some reason. 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I have been through a lot, but I still manage to have a smile on my face. Im not worried about the past…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/me-i-have-been-through-a-lot-but-i-still-manage-to-have-a-smile-on-my/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Distance is a test of love. many will fail for those who can't withstand it, but for those who can, theres only one answer…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/distance-is-a-test-of-love-many-will-fail-for-those-who-can-t/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Im sorry I ever tried...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/im-sorry-i-ever-tried/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being betrayed by the one you love is the worst feeling in the world...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/being-betrayed-by-the-one-you-love-is-the-worst-feeling-in-the-world/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Let children support their parents or be imprisoned.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/let-children-support-their-parents-or-be-imprisoned/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The only person I've ever purposely caused pain here is myself...By simply sharing, caring too much.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-only-person-i-ve-ever-purposely-caused-pain-here-is-myself-by/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“Start a business, not a startup”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/start-a-business-not-a-startup/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The truth is, of course, that the curtness of the Ten Commandments is an evidence, not of the gloom and narrowness of a religion,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-truth-is-of-course-that-the-curtness-of-the-ten-commandments-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) [Explore all 162,899 Anonymous quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More Being disappointed quotes > [Though there may be people in your life that support you and encourage you we have to realize that people are only human, and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anurag-prakash-ray/though-there-may-be-people-in-your-life-that-support-you-and/) [Anurag Prakash Ray](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anurag-prakash-ray/) > [Don't ask me why I'm treating you cold, I'm not. 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After awhile you get tired of being disappointed constantly.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-don-t-put-my-faith-or-trust-in-anyone-no-more-after-awhile-you-get/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being disappointed is sometimes an inevitable outcome that no one can control.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/noelle-scaggs/being-disappointed-is-sometimes-an-inevitable-outcome-that-no-one-can/) [Noelle Scaggs](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/noelle-scaggs/) > [I loved Sherlock Holmes as a kid, but I remember being disappointed when he'd come up with these simple explanations for these complex mysteries.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/peter-weir/i-loved-sherlock-holmes-as-a-kid-but-i-remember-being-disappointed/) [Peter Weir](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/peter-weir/) > [U turned ur bck oN tomorw,c0z u 4gt Yestrday.i gave u my love in borrow.. bt u jst throw it away..](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/xresh-atish/u-turned-ur-bck-on-tomorw-c0z-u-4gt-yestrday-i-gave-u-my-love-in/) [Xresh Atish](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/xresh-atish/) > [Don't push yourself to be nice in the eyes of who doesn't like you, just prove yourself to person who appreciates every pieces of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/don-t-push-yourself-to-be-nice-in-the-eyes-of-who-doesn-t-like-you/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [My heart, my lungs, my blood - they've all been checked. I remember one of the doctors almost being disappointed when he showed me…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/simon-cowell/my-heart-my-lungs-my-blood-they-ve-all-been-checked-i-remember-one-of/) [Simon Cowell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/simon-cowell/) > [The feeling of being deceived, completely betrayed by someone so close to your clueless heart. You tell them everything, all the emotions and ideas…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-feeling-of-being-deceived-completely-betrayed-by-someone-so-close/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being disappointed with yourself sucks worse than others being disappointed with you.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/being-disappointed-with-yourself-sucks-worse-than-others-being/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I don't know how exactly but I'm maybe perverse in the sense that I like being disappointed in something on a daily basis. Because…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/rose-mcgowan/i-don-t-know-how-exactly-but-i-m-maybe-perverse-in-the-sense-that-i/) [Rose McGowan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/rose-mcgowan/) > [A persons opinion about me will never effect the quantity or quality of my slumber.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marcus-mitchell/a-persons-opinion-about-me-will-never-effect-the-quantity-or-quality/) Marcus Mitchell [Browse all 220 Being disappointed quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/being-disappointed/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you didn't show.", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Anonymous" }, "isPartOf": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s-about-what-you-didn-t-show/", "about": { "@type": "Thing", "name": "Being disappointed" }, "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s-about-what-you-didn-t-show/#quotation", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ca/anonymous-1_being-disappointed_it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s_2394418.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“It's not about what you didn't feel, it's about what you didn't show.” — Anonymous", "creditText": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "creator": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } } }, { "@type": "BreadcrumbList", "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "name": "Home", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 2, "name": "Quotes", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 3, "name": "Anonymous", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 4, "name": "It's not about what you didn't...", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s-about-what-you-didn-t-show/" } ], "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/it-s-not-about-what-you-didn-t-feel-it-s-about-what-you-didn-t-show/#breadcrumb" }, { "@type": "WebSite", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "publisher": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } }, { "@type": "Organization", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "logo": { "@type": "ImageObject", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/themes/sq/assets/icons/icon-512.png", "width": 512, "height": 512 } } ] } ```