--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I hate it when you tell someone they hurt…" description: "\"I hate it when you tell someone they hurt you and they twist and turn it into there pain and leave you once again feeling unimportant.\" — Anonymous" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bb/anonymous-1_pain_i-hate-it-when-you-tell-someone-they-hur_1857983.jpg" --- # I hate it when you tell someone they hurt you and they… ![“I hate it when you tell someone they hurt you and they twist and turn it into there pain and leave you once again feeling unimportant.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bb/anonymous-1_pain_i-hate-it-when-you-tell-someone-they-hur_1857983.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bb/anonymous-1_pain_i-hate-it-when-you-tell-someone-they-hur_1857983.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bb/anonymous-1_pain_i-hate-it-when-you-tell-someone-they-hur_1857983.jpg) > “I hate it when you tell someone they hurt you and they twist and turn it into there pain and leave you once again feeling unimportant.” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker feels hurt when someone dismisses their pain and then neglects them, leaving them feeling unimportant. **In simple terms:** Feeling ignored after sharing pain. Key Takeaway Address emotional neglect. Themes emotion neglect validation Mood hurt reflective Type personal emotional When to use this quote - conflict resolution - assertive communication - relationship boundaries - self‑care Key Concepts interpersonal dynamics emotional health Questions to Reflect On - How can you voice your feelings? - What boundaries can protect you? A Different Perspective May not capture the other person's intent. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Feeling Unimportant](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/feeling-unimportant/) [Pain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/pain/) ## Related quotes > [Another day feeling unimportant. 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But yet I cant bring myself to leave.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-m-tired-of-feeling-empty-and-unimportant-to-you-but-yet-i-cant/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Feeling unimportant is such a daily struggle. It's not something that just goes away. it usually sticks with you until someone changes it.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/feeling-unimportant-is-such-a-daily-struggle-it-s-not-something-that/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I hate this feeling. You know, feeling unimportant and unwanted is the worst feelings ever.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-hate-this-feeling-you-know-feeling-unimportant-and-unwanted-is-the/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Feeling unimportant to the people you put first is the worst feeling.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/feeling-unimportant-to-the-people-you-put-first-is-the-worst-feeling/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [People whose name starts with 'U' are feeling unimportant. Show them some attention and it will brighten up their day.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/people-whose-name-starts-with-u-are-feeling-unimportant-show-them/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure, if I knew you were missing me too.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/missing-you-could-turn-from-pain-to-pleasure-if-i-knew-you-were/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Missing someone can turn the pain into pleasure, if we know they're missing us too.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/missing-someone-can-turn-the-pain-into-pleasure-if-we-know-they-re/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You like someone? Tell them! It would hurt more if you don't let them know. Because one day they will leave...and you will wish…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-like-someone-tell-them-it-would-hurt-more-if-you-don-t-let-them/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You'll never know when a Capricorn is hurting inside unless they flat-out tell you, 'I'm hurt.'](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-ll-never-know-when-a-capricorn-is-hurting-inside-unless-they-flat/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More by Anonymous > [And a tear rolled down her cheek, as she said goodbye; because she's walking away, and she's never looking back](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/and-a-tear-rolled-down-her-cheek-as-she-said-goodbye-because-she-s/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Life is full of change. That's how we learn and grow.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/life-is-full-of-change-that-s-how-we-learn-and-grow/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-ll-seldom-experience-regret-for-anything-that-you-ve-done-it-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Scrabble - The game is available in Braille. That’s a nice fact. This makes me feel better about humanity for some reason. I can’t…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/scrabble-the-game-is-available-in-braille-that-s-a-nice-fact-this/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Everyone needs someone to love, and I choose you.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/everyone-needs-someone-to-love-and-i-choose-you/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“THIS tale of my sore-troubled life I write,    To thank the God of nature, who conveyed    My soul to me, and with such care…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/this-tale-of-my-sore-troubled-life-i-write-to-thank-the-god-of-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Put on my J's and dance the whole night away Im naughty by nature like Im hip-hop hooray With my hands in the sky,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/put-on-my-j-s-and-dance-the-whole-night-away-im-naughty-by-nature/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Me.. I have been through a lot, but I still manage to have a smile on my face. Im not worried about the past…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/me-i-have-been-through-a-lot-but-i-still-manage-to-have-a-smile-on-my/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Distance is a test of love. many will fail for those who can't withstand it, but for those who can, theres only one answer…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/distance-is-a-test-of-love-many-will-fail-for-those-who-can-t/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Im sorry I ever tried...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/im-sorry-i-ever-tried/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Being betrayed by the one you love is the worst feeling in the world...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/being-betrayed-by-the-one-you-love-is-the-worst-feeling-in-the-world/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [Let children support their parents or be imprisoned.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/let-children-support-their-parents-or-be-imprisoned/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The only person I've ever purposely caused pain here is myself...By simply sharing, caring too much.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-only-person-i-ve-ever-purposely-caused-pain-here-is-myself-by/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [“Start a business, not a startup”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/start-a-business-not-a-startup/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [The truth is, of course, that the curtness of the Ten Commandments is an evidence, not of the gloom and narrowness of a religion,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/the-truth-is-of-course-that-the-curtness-of-the-ten-commandments-is/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) [Explore all 162,899 Anonymous quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## More Hurt quotes > [The only people who think the Internet is a calamity are people whose lives have been hurt by it; the only people who insist…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/chuck-klosterman/the-only-people-who-think-the-internet-is-a-calamity-are-people-whose/) [Chuck Klosterman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/chuck-klosterman/) > [“I locked the door and turned on the water to fill the tub. 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The moment one begins to doubt the knowledge that, 'I am Chandubhai,' misery arises. Once one…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/dada-bhagwan/where-there-is-doubt-shanka-there-is-misery-the-moment-one-begins-to/) [Dada Bhagwan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/dada-bhagwan/) > [Good girls don't hurt other people's feelings. Good girls are not overly aggressive, competitive, or boastful. Good girls please others. 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