--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: And I said to him that I had made a vow…" description: "\"“And I said to him that I had made a vow in my turn, that I would never marry a man who knew the meaning of fear.”\" — Anonymous" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b5/anonymous-1_fear_and-i-said-to-him-that-i-had-made-a-vow_643200.jpg" --- # And I said to him that I had made a vow in my turn, that I… ![“And I said to him that I had made a vow in my turn, that I would never marry a man who knew the meaning of fear.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b5/anonymous-1_fear_and-i-said-to-him-that-i-had-made-a-vow_643200.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b5/anonymous-1_fear_and-i-said-to-him-that-i-had-made-a-vow_643200.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b5/anonymous-1_fear_and-i-said-to-him-that-i-had-made-a-vow_643200.jpg) > ““And I said to him that I had made a vow in my turn, that I would never marry a man who knew the meaning of fear.”” [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A vow to avoid marrying anyone who understands fear, implying fear limits love. **In simple terms:** Avoid partners who know fear. Key Takeaway Seek partners free from fear. Themes love fear marriage Mood hopeful serious Type philosophical questioning When to use this quote - dating - marriage counseling - personal vows Key Concepts psychology of fear relationship choices Questions to Reflect On - Is fear a barrier to intimacy? - Can love coexist with fear? 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