--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It hadn’t escaped my attention that I…" description: "\"“It hadn’t escaped my attention that I preferred to spend time with the undead rather than the living. I tried not to think about what that said about ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/21a/amy-plum-3659_dead_it-hadn-t-escaped-my-attention-that-i-pr_2822029.jpg" --- # It hadn’t escaped my attention that I preferred to spend… ![“It hadn’t escaped my attention that I preferred to spend time with the undead rather than the living. I tried not to think about what that said about me.” quote by Amy Plum](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/21a/amy-plum-3659_dead_it-hadn-t-escaped-my-attention-that-i-pr_2822029.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/21a/amy-plum-3659_dead_it-hadn-t-escaped-my-attention-that-i-pr_2822029.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/21a/amy-plum-3659_dead_it-hadn-t-escaped-my-attention-that-i-pr_2822029.jpg) > ““It hadn’t escaped my attention that I preferred to spend time with the undead rather than the living. I tried not to think about what that said about me.”” [Amy Plum](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/amy-plum/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The narrator prefers undead companions, reflecting a fear of confronting personal identity. **In simple terms:** Prefers undead over living, hinting at self‑avoidance. Key Takeaway Explore why you avoid self‑reflection. 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