--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You could kill me, Alice, he looked at me…" description: "\"You could kill me, Alice, he looked at me seriously. That's how much you mean to me. As foolish and masochistic as that makes me, you are so much to me..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ad2/amanda-hocking-1305_foolish_you-could-kill-me-alice-he-looked-at-me_2451679.png" --- # You could kill me, Alice, he looked at me seriously… ![“You could kill me, Alice, he looked at me seriously. That's how much you mean to me. As foolish and masochistic as that makes me, you are so much to me that even if it destroys me to be with you, I'll be with you!” quote by Amanda Hocking](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ad2/amanda-hocking-1305_foolish_you-could-kill-me-alice-he-looked-at-me_2451679.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ad2/amanda-hocking-1305_foolish_you-could-kill-me-alice-he-looked-at-me_2451679.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ad2/amanda-hocking-1305_foolish_you-could-kill-me-alice-he-looked-at-me_2451679.png) > “You could kill me, Alice, he looked at me seriously. That's how much you mean to me. As foolish and masochistic as that makes me, you are so much to me that even if it destroys me to be with you, I'll be with you!” [Amanda Hocking](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/amanda-hocking/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Extreme devotion can lead to self‑destructive choices driven by love. **In simple terms:** Love can be self‑destructive. Key Takeaway Love wisely, set boundaries. Themes love self‑destruction devotion Mood cautionary emotional Type advice philosophical When to use this quote - relationships - personal sacrifice - emotional health Key Concepts psychology of attachment risk taking Questions to Reflect On - Is love worth self‑harm? - How to love healthily? 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