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> [“The heart of the problem, I soon came to understand, was that with Pablo there must always be a victor and a vanquished. I could not be satisfied with being a victor, nor, I think, could anyone who is emotionally…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/francoise-gilot/the-heart-of-the-problem-i-soon-came-to-understand-was-that-with/)

[Francoise Gilot](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/francoise-gilot/)

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