--- title: "1 Unwilling Change Quotes By Scott Stabile" description: "1 Unwilling Change quotes by Scott Stabile. Plus more from Scott Stabile and more Unwilling Change sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f59/scott-stabile-1367_change_how-can-we-expect-the-world-to-change-if_1909581.jpg" --- > [“How can we expect the world to change if we are unwilling to change ourselves? We hate the haters, judge the judgers, and refuse to forgive the supposed unforgivable. We are hypocrites, most of us, comfortable condemning others for the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/how-can-we-expect-the-world-to-change-if-we-are-unwilling-to-change/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f59/scott-stabile-1367_change_how-can-we-expect-the-world-to-change-if_1909581.jpg) ## More by Scott Stabile > [“She felt wild and unruly, determined and free.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/she-felt-wild-and-unruly-determined-and-free/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“What is true for you? What makes your heart smile? When do you feel most yourself? What do you love to do? Ask yourself…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/what-is-true-for-you-what-makes-your-heart-smile-when-do-you-feel/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“I see you. I see your strength and courage, your hesitations and fears. I see the way you love others, and your struggle to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/i-see-you-i-see-your-strength-and-courage-your-hesitations-and-fears/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“Shout out to the noisemakers. Our world needs your voices. Make noise for justice. Make noise for inclusion. Make noise for empathy. Make noise…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/shout-out-to-the-noisemakers-our-world-needs-your-voices-make-noise/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“If only I could spend all my days surrounded by people brave enough to open their hearts for real.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/if-only-i-could-spend-all-my-days-surrounded-by-people-brave-enough/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“Love is not blind. Love sees everything and says yes to it all.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/love-is-not-blind-love-sees-everything-and-says-yes-to-it-all/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“Your past and your pain will certainly impact you, but they don’t have to define you. You get to write your own definition.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/your-past-and-your-pain-will-certainly-impact-you-but-they-don-t-have/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“A little creativity can make something ordinary, extraordinary, and something extraordinary that much more so.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/a-little-creativity-can-make-something-ordinary-extraordinary-and/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“You don’t have to do the same things you’ve always done, if it no longer feels good to do them. 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We all need to have our hand held sometimes.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/let-s-never-stop-holding-each-other-s-hands-we-all-need-to-have-our/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“I don't know about you, but sometimes I need to remind myself to breathe. I have to close my eyes and concentrate, even force…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/i-don-t-know-about-you-but-sometimes-i-need-to-remind-myself-to/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“We're not on the same page right now, but that's okay. Were still in the same story, and there's still so much more to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/we-re-not-on-the-same-page-right-now-but-that-s-okay-were-still-in/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) > [“She wished she liked him more. She wished she loved him less.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-stabile/she-wished-she-liked-him-more-she-wished-she-loved-him-less/) [Scott Stabile](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-stabile/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/unwilling-change/scott-stabile/#itemlist", "name": "1 Unwilling Change Quotes By Scott Stabile", "numberOfItems": 1, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“How can we expect the world to change if we are unwilling to change ourselves? We hate the haters, judge the judgers, and refuse to forgive the supposed unforgivable. We are hypocrites, most of us, comfortable condemning others for the same things we do. Like sheep we follow, like wolves we attack, like fools we listen to the loudest voices, even when they scream nothing but hate. We are lost in our desire to be like everyone else, and paralyzed in our fear to be ourselves. We are desperate to feel safe amidst our cries for retaliation and more wars. Where is the common sense? If we want to end war, then be peaceful. If we want to know love, then stop hating. if we want to find happiness, then let go of negativity, and befriend gratitude. real change isn’t born from making the same choices over and over, especially choices muddied with insecurity and fear. we can’t wrest ourselves from darkness by turning out our light. everything just gets darker then. Let's worry less about changing the world and more about changing ourselves. That, we can do, each one of us. With commitment and work. 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