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> [“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my-enemy-understand-him-well-3/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

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## More by Marissa Baker

> [“If we hesitate to answer when you ask us a question, we are NOT thinking of an excuse or making up lies; we are…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/if-we-hesitate-to-answer-when-you-ask-us-a-question-we-are-not/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

> [“I find myself taking responsibility for everyone's emotions, even though they are not my burden to carry. I somehow feel that it is up…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/i-find-myself-taking-responsibility-for-everyone-s-emotions-even/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

> [“INFJs weakness: have no sense of direction, often so clumsy, worst at expressing their emotions, too afraid to hurt someone, stubborn, have too high…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/infjs-weakness-have-no-sense-of-direction-often-so-clumsy-worst-at/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

> [“our personality type is the “canvas” and our individual choices and experiences are the “paint” we each use in creating our unique lives.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/our-personality-type-is-the-canvas-and-our-individual-choices-and/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

> [“alcohol somehow helps me verbalize my emotions. It takes away that wall that I put up, so I am very honest, and it gets…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/alcohol-somehow-helps-me-verbalize-my-emotions-it-takes-away-that/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

> [“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my-enemy-understand-him-well-3/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

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